I can sometimes get a way with that. I definitley have to feed first though because his first instinct is bite first, ask questions later. Once he's had about a half a dozen jumbo shrimp he's calm enough to pet.Bogwoodbruce;1755647; said:My 18" WAL is very timid some times i do stroke his back and hes fine very mild if he gets scared he circles up and covers his head with his tail.
I honestly think you have to own one to appreciate their personality. They are truly pets...they respond to you entering rooms, turning lights on, opening lids, or (in my case) knocking when they are hungry.chillie;1767841; said:thks for sharing ur painful experiences .
Why is it still worth keeping despite living with the phobia that one day you will have your fingers bitten off by ? ...plse share the reason why . thks
GriF;1787238; said:when i feed my dolloi it goes for my fingers first......when it knows my fingers are gone it will go for it's food...(takes aprox 2 minutes).
My aethiopicus will come up for food and is quite mello. only atacked the siphonhose once.

Atkin;1773130; said:I have no idea why i keep mine, ive just bonded with him if that applicable to fish. I guess its sort of like why do people keep dogs when they are more than capable of ripping your throat out at any moment.