ok, well as for pics, he's the avatar in my profile....he hasn't tried rubbing anything or whatnot. But, does 'beg' for food, then when I drop food in, he's not interested. i even put in one of the kids goldfish (they haven't commented yet) in there hoping he'd eat him. I can't believe I'm bummed out I did this almost a week ago, and the freaking goldfish lives....
the water temp is room temp. I don't do heaters as I've had bad experiences with them. Too many actually. Room temp is kept 72 to 74 year round.
the whiskers receeding back was with my pictus catfish, who are doing much better now after many, and I mean many late night water changes. They all eat tho...just not my kitty fish.
What worries me is how when he does try to eat, alot of times he spits it out after 'gumming' it. That's what makes me think he hurt himself internally eating the shrimp, or maybe a snail shell as he tended to munch on the big snails in the past. He also would eat cucumber that was stuck on a spoon for my algae eater. So many factors involved, but it's been too long. I know from my past experience a fish can live for a month without eating. He's eating, just a little bit.
Also, the main thing I noticed, I also called him my vacuum....he'd just swoop over the bottom, vacuuming up anything and everything. Doesn't do that anymore. Food can land right on him, and no reaction.
He's still here, just really worried. I have other issues going on with another tank, but that's a whole other story. Kitty fish doesn't show any of those signs.
So frustrating. ppl have mentioned pics or vids. of him begging for food? not interested? or spitting it out? If I lose him, due to something I have no idea over, I may lose all interest, at least for awhile, and I take care of 3 other tanks as well....he is my favorite