Acer;1462128; said:Just because something is illegal doesn't mean it is inherently wrong...
No, it makes it legally wrong. Just because pot grows, doesn't make it inherently right either. it makes it part of nature.
holmes14;1462527; said:Pot doesnt make people stupid, some people are just stupid by themselves and if they smoke pot then thats the reason why they did something dumb. Think of how many people just grow there own for personal use because it helps them get through there day, and nooone knows that they smoke because theres so many people that think its such a bad hardcore drug. ahhh some people...
I think we can all agree, that smoking it changes the way we people think. everyone is saying things like it helps them through the day, or it makes boring things more fun. thats all because it changes the way you think.
it changes your judgment, your perception and your values (Just like booze). If you use too much you act different, think different, re-act different, and do things you may not otherwise do. People who are prone to be stupid, are certainly more stupid on pot. but smart people are not smarter.
You have a few J's you're feeling good, you go for a drive. You drive differently, people do get in accidents high, people die in them. I believe it is easier to cover up the smoke than the booze.
The statements that no one has ever died in a HIGH driving accident or because they (or someone else) was high is false.
Lets take a person that is high and likes to speed on their motorcycles they are more likely to speed, more likely to crash and yes more likely to die. (more specifically into the back of a tractor trailer being decapitated.) could he have avoided it straight? would he have gone that fast straight?
I could tell you about an 18yo who absolutely knew that his bed sheet would act like a parachute, jumping off a 110 foot cliff would he have jumped if he wasn't high?
The 19yo on his motorcycle running from the cops, he is alive after flying over an embankment breaking his neck & back. he can walk but he shakes all the time, he cant drive, and can barely write.
The 14 yo boy who got so scared when that his young neighbor girl would tell his parents he was high, he killed her with the rope of his sled; dragged her body on his sled in a cardboard box & bumped her body in a field. that was over 25 years ago, I haven't seen her father in over 20, but I am sure he believes the pot had something to do with it, and so does the boy (now a 40yo man) it was his defense & motive.
The 18 yo who killed his 17yo girlfriend while he was high & they had a fight. He stabbed her in her house with scissors, then poured gasoline & lit the house on fire. her brother came home to find the house burning after school, he was 14 and watched the firemen pull his sisters charred body from the house. The house was rebuild, but I have never been inside since then. would this have happened if he were straight?, I don't know, but one of the prettiest girls in my school died that day.
How about the 22yo who said his knee was hurting, he knew that cutting his leg off with a chain saw would make it feel better. speaking with him after the fact he still smokes pot, but even he says he wouldn't have been that stupid, if he wasn't stoned.
Perhaps the 20yo brother of an x-friend of mine he was a star athlete & 3.8 student at the university. he told us all he was faster than the train, we begged him not to race it, he set up in the starters position. he lost his life and we lost a friend.
These are not stories, they are experiences. they were not cases, they were my friends, my co-workers & my family.
So to all my fish keeping friends friends out there who feel it cant happen to you, or that its all political hype. you're full of it, I am a 40 yo man crying at his desk remembering times he would rather forget, re-seeing things he would rather never have seen. an re-living portions of his life, he wishes he never lived. but knowing he is a better man, a better father, husband and a better friend for having these experiences.
Take what you want from this, because you all know when you grab that joint & take a hit, or two. you will be able to rationalize that my friends were all just idiots any way, you're not that dumb, & you would never do that.
I used to be you.
I am done posting in this thread; I may read it to the end, but not gonna post in this thread again. It's getting too deep & personal. You should all know I am not judging you, just concerned for you. (even if you don't want it or don't feel you need it)
If you want to quit an addiction & can't, there is help, just ask. if you think you're not addicted, try to stop. If you can't stop, then your addicted.
Back to my fish, they help me make it through the day, and make boring things more fun...