College life

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Sorry not trying to start a argument,also seen kids homework and I'm like huh?
I have ap Calc 1, ap physics, and ap Econ. That's the main homework load.
 
Im definitely enjoying it. I wish I could just stay in school forever lol. Parts of it have made me pretty frustrated but it's rewarding.

To the gf thing, it definitely has it's perks. We live about 35 miles from campus so carpooling has been a big plus on our wallets in terms of gas and on our cars in terms of distance traveled daily haha.
She's a math major so for a while we were able to help eachother other but at junior and senior level classes physics math is different than math math lol.

Seriously, my gf and I always laugh and say we wish we can go back to those days and just waking up and going to classes.. Man those days are long gone now.

Your carpooling is exactly what I did with my gf during the first two years of college and yeah that was tough until we were able to get a place nearby.

Oh I'm sure the math is different at the 300+ level courses in physics for sure..
 
Yeah no. If you want something you need to earn it. Teens shouldn't be given everything. They need to be taught they have to work for things. Why are we just handing out diplomas nowadays? To make sure the next generation isn't prepared at all for the real world? I'm a high school teenager who has lost friends to suicide and another kid at our school was picked up for murder last year. I've worked for the grades I've gotten, the money in the bank, and the achievements I've made in the pool and hope to swim in college. If you don't work and try to succeed then you don't deserve anything. Period.
I agree with both sides of the argument. Teens need to stop whining so damn much about EVERYTHING, but in the same respect there are a lot higher demands on today's youth than even when I was in high school...which wasn't terribly long ago.
 
Let me tell u a story of how hard kids work out here,5days a week kid 1 and kid 2 pushed their lawn mowers around several neighborhoods,often pushing the lawn mowers in hilly country 3 miles just to get there for approximately 10 dollars a day once they split the money,they couldn't get much more because then some guy with a shiny truck and a rider mower would get the job(most jobs that used to be kid jobs r now taken by adults,such as newspaper delivery or yard maintenance) these two kids worked15 hours a day,and still didn't get any respect because they were viewed as arrogant teenagers,so show some respect because 1 in 8 children under 12 go hungry tonight,and that rate is likely higher among teens,and that's just in the United States.

This is a serious problem with kids in america.. Last year, couple of my students were out during periods 1-3 (they had me for period 4) and would come to school just to make it on time for period 4. I would ask them why they would always miss out on p1-3 and come to school then. Then I learned that those three boys worked from 6am to 11am to support their families pay the bills.. I was just in awe as they explained how unfortunate they situations are and of course then I worked with them to get their grades up, make up missing assignments, and study for tests. I always use their example to my new students every year but to reassure that some of the students have it really easy and others just dont, so take advantage of your situation.
 
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I agree with both sides of the argument. Teens need to stop whining so damn much about EVERYTHING, but in the same respect there are a lot higher demands on today's youth than even when I was in high school...which wasn't terribly long ago.

Man you are right on. Teens whine way too much and honestly I get so sick and tired of it that one of my expectations in my class is simply "If you have time to whine, you are wasting your time."
 
College was great but I also stayed within my means. I got a degree that would get me started quick and still achieve my salary goals in my industry. I had a little part time gig installing water lines. I basically went to class, did homework, drank, hit on women, got 5 hrs sleep then repeated. I had few responsibilities back then besides my half of rent.

Now with wife kids stressful job etc and needing more rest college would absolutely be brutal. I have a different raising than most I run into though. I've had jobs since I was 13 and my dad made it very clear that I better handle business first before I did anything else or that was my ass. Live within your means, keep your priorities straight, and rise above adversity. Life is full of bad situations but its how you make the best of them. Most people today have no coping mechanism.

College was awesome and the opposite sex was so much easier to deal with lol
 
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Hats off to young people with a work ethic. They are the exception to the rule. So many are brought up in a very privileged society where everything is done for them, bought for them, where their world is constant entertainment. Must be hard to grow up with all the distractions that were not even invented when I was growing up. That said, I still maintain that college is much harder than high school, and grad school and post grad is harder than college, and that making it in the working world is generally harder and definitely less fun than going to school.
 
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My gf told me the other day that goes something along the lines, those who are successful are whom "suffered" at some point of their lives therefore take control of their lives and truly seek a better life. My brother grew up as a spoiled little brat sociopath who is 30 years old and still havent work a full time job ever. He just free loads off my parents.. I moved out of my parents house and been paying my own bills and loans since 18. I suffered so much having to deal with that idiot that I chose to break out of old habits and live a prosperous one. Kudos to my girl for really helping me straighten my life..
 
Kudos to you. Perhaps entitlement is something that has to be overcome to be truly successful in this life....entitlement could be a curse instead of a blessing. Kids who have to work grow up with a work ethic.
 
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