Dating advice?

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predatorkeeper87 said:
I had every intention of coming in here to laugh, and I wasn't laughing until I hit SumoNinja SumoNinja

The number one rule of dating is:
Be confident in your actions, and in yourself. Take care of your body, don't be a fat slob, take a little pride in your appearance. Don't cross the line to a cocky prick. Have a job, earn money and spend wisely, and the rest is easy. Talk to women like you have a set, don't immediately pander to their every prevailing wish. Live YOUR life, and eventually a girl will want to share in it with you. Don't be one of those guys who immediately gives in to everything you think the girl wants to hear. Tell her exactly what you want, what you like to do and where YOU are heading in life. If that sounds good to her, she will listen. If she doesn't like what she hears tell her to go home, there are plenty of women, don't settle on the first one who gives you the time of day.
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about 4 years ago, this thread would have been tons and tons of fun
 
I met my wife playing ball at the park through some friends. IMO if you try to hard, you're bound to fail. Just relax be yourself and someone will come by. GL
 
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fishnatics said:
I met my wife playing ball at the park through some friends. IMO if you try to hard, you're bound to fail. Just relax be yourself and someone will come by. GL
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Sweet, I wish I was sporty, lol. I sit around and look at fish all day though... and lots of poker. Good way to make money, good way to lose money though. I won $130 today in a little tournament between friends ;)

I'm set up to meet someone in a month, but I just learned - she's like 3-4 years older than me. Might be interesting, we will play it out though. Worst thing is she says no, right?
 
Just don't think about it, and live your life. Honestly, that's how I met my girlfriend's past and present; whenever I was actively seeking a woman, I had zero luck, when I effectively "gave up", that was when it happened lol.

Women are funny creatures that way, they can sense if you are looking or if you don't care; its a fine line, but women like a confident guy, and dare I say it, one that doesn't treat them like a princess, it's why in school all the rough, ugly thugs dated the beautiful girls; they were rough around the edges, and didn't put women on a pedestal.

Go to the gym, get slim; not even overly built or anything, just don't be fat. Get a clothing style (read, not expensive), and pursue your interests. I guarantee you will have female admirers.
 
convict360 said:
Just don't think about it, and live your life. Honestly, that's how I met my girlfriend's past and present; whenever I was actively seeking a woman, I had zero luck, when I effectively "gave up", that was when it happened lol.

Women are funny creatures that way, they can sense if you are looking or if you don't care; its a fine line, but women like a confident guy, and dare I say it, one that doesn't treat them like a princess, it's why in school all the rough, ugly thugs dated the beautiful girls; they were rough around the edges, and didn't put women on a pedestal.

Go to the gym, get slim; not even overly built or anything, just don't be fat. Get a clothing style (read, not expensive), and pursue your interests. I guarantee you will have female admirers.
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Well I'm 5'2", so I dunno about the guarantee part. But other than that, sounds like sound advice. Never thought about the whole second part of your post, I'll have to keep it in mind.

Headed to my aunt's wedding this weekend, so I've got 200-300 people that I can squeeze some more advice from. I should be a walking dictionary by the time I'm done with that!
 
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