my mom has gotten practically obsessed with my fish. i got stuck with some large cichlids that i saved from ym friends pirhana tank and couldnt keep them all after college so i was gonna give them to a lfs but my mom refused and got super attached to them. her getting mad is only cuz she thought my big back cr. sveni ate my 3" convict whihc is like her favorite fish. i said look under and around all the rocks he'll be there and sure enough he was. fish friendly family = 
drugs suck.... and as much as i bugger away on the hobby its just no contest to the absolute cost of what i was doing finiancially its not saving me much though