dont think ill be here much longer.......

  • We are currently upgrading MFK. thanks! -neo
Status
Not open for further replies.
thinkin of moving back to my old place for awhile. may sell off my tank and start saving up for the trip to texas.. or i can just get a smaller tank to work with for awhile ( still save up money for the trip ) what do you think??

stay here and pay 400 a month plus weekly bills
or
go back to harrys and pay 350 with all bills included?
 
^ Okay, i just want to say, although i'm not too sure what SSI is, i still wouldn't recommend you drop yours so quickly, especially if your not financially stable yet and its covering some of your medical expenses...

As for moving out, again its really your choice... i mean is it worth threatening to move out again just coz your grandma unloaded a few boxes in on your living area/room...

I mean i mentioned this before, i really don't know what its actually like living life in your shoes with your family so only you can really tell... but i would definitely think it through very carefully, coz you never know, this may very well the last chance of your grandparents letting you live with them if any thing goes wrong...
 
LBF bro
srsly
ive been on the forum for a good amount of time and all I SEE is threads pertaining to how you have issues and how you hate certain things...
bro i know you have to rant once in a while but i swear to god its almost everyday with you
no i am not being POS person.. i am just advising you that some things are meant to be kept to yourself and be fixed BY YOURSELF!
BRO go look at all my threads and all of them are about fish or something positive.. nothing about how my life is horrible because something has happened.
LIFE is FULL of curve balls
get used to it
IMHO stop making all these threads.. solve your issues * E.G you applied for jobs which is good* and post threads about fish!
that is all
:)
 
cichlid2006;4376196; said:
Who cares what he did with a kiddie pool, thats got nothing to do with this.

It is hard being disabled, being independant. I would imagine a mental disability makes life a thousand times harder than a physical one.
They did actually put him into this situation by not supporting him like a proper family would and helping him get on his feet like proper family would.

They are now forcing him to be in this situation by robbing him blind for sleeping in one room that is shared by the family and buying his own food. Leaving him little money to live with and just about zero opportunity to have a proper go at serious saving.

When I got my first flat my family rallied round and helped me get the essentials even though I had most of it covered but they still offered to put money in. My parents told me if it didn't work out that I was welcome to go home and try again later. That is what a proper family does. That offer is still open now even though i have been married for 4 years and am ex-forces so I know how to be self sufficient.

It honestly seems like some of you aren't taking any of these things into consideration before you post your negative comments instead of sound advice.

Some of you should be ashamed of yourselves for seeing an opportunity to kick the disabled kid while he is down instead of seeing an opportunity to pass on some of your hard learned wisdom.
Click to expand...


Exactly. Some of these poeple have no remote idea what its like to be scape goated, and to come from a dysfunctional family. Who paid for everything when they were younger? Their parents. When they went to college, who paid? Their parents. Who continues to offer them emotional and financial support all the time? Their parents/family. While most people think this is automatic, its not so for alot of people. People need to realize not everyone has the same privileges and opportunities no matter how much its told to us. Some people here take all this for granted, and barely realize without their support they'd have NOTHING. Some people got both their parents, and don't know what it feels like losing one of them or both of them, especially when you are young.


Alot of these trolls with negative comments make me think they are just miserable people because the have to shoot someone down. LBF, HAS disabilities. And for someone with his problems, he even is making an attempt to get a job, GED and more. I know perfect functioning people that are too lazy to do any of this. I know some people that are on SSI and are nothing more than drug addicts that collect money to get them drugs. At least LBF wants to get off SSI.

Alot of you guys are missing this and not really seeing LBF's determination. I know he doesn't have all his priorities straight, but with help he can better realize them.
 
Pyramid_Party;4377083; said:
Exactly. Some of these poeple have no remote idea what its like to be scape goated, and to come from a dysfunctional family. Who paid for everything when they were younger? Their parents. When they went to college, who paid? Their parents. Who continues to offer them emotional and financial support all the time? Their parents/family. While most people think this is automatic, its not so for alot of people. People need to realize not everyone has the same privileges and opportunities no matter how much its told to us. Some people here take all this for granted, and barely realize without their support they'd have NOTHING. Some people got both their parents, and don't know what it feels like losing one of them or both of them, especially when you are young.


Alot of these trolls with negative comments make me think they are just miserable people because the have to shoot someone down. LBF, HAS disabilities. And for someone with his problems, he even is making an attempt to get a job, GED and more. I know perfect functioning people that are too lazy to do any of this. I know some people that are on SSI and are nothing more than drug addicts that collect money to get them drugs. At least LBF wants to get off SSI.

Alot of you guys are missing this and not really seeing LBF's determination. I know he doesn't have all his priorities straight, but with help he can better realize them.
Click to expand...


This is so true.
 
my mom was a big inspiration on me and reallly really protecting of me to ( heck me and my sis and bros were in foster home for some quite time and my mom fought and fought to get ME back on account of my disabilitys and i was really attached to her thn and was tell she died ) my mom warned me before she died NOT and i repeat NOT to live with my grandmother or aunt on account of my ssi or whatever reasons she had.. but i had no choice when she died. i was 17, so the next thing i new i was living witih my aunt and she was my payee ( big huge mistake!!!!! i never saw a dime out of there for any reasons i needed.. she bought her kids stuff with that money and payed all the biills with it to then i moved out on my own with some friends of mine and she gave up the ssi to the government * which is now still the government * and they were paying my part of the rent which was good. living with my friens at that time was the best choice i made! at that time my aunt lived down 2 houses away ( that family is the one with my dog issue and giving her up just to find out my aunt lied just to get my dog ) my aunt moved out of town so i moved with them ( my friends wife kicked me ouy, she was a hyper maniac that went to mental lock down a few times ) back to my grndmothers we went so i moved out and to my uncles ( another best place i lived at. but now he lives in oklahoma ) so then when i moved out i moved to my grandad in the same town ( not the one i live with now, my real grandad ) that was an ok place. he had a gf that was kinda of a fish fanatic like me but not as much as me. then i moved out of there back with my aunt or grandmothers cant remember whcih..

moral of the story? i seem better when im alone and actually have money to myself...
 
I guess after reading your latest post here, i'm curious, would it be at all possible for you to move in with another family member??? even if its out of state??? coz i wouldn't necessarily say you do better on your own, but would definitely do better if you were with family members who at least cared about your well being and your future... possibly some one like your uncle you mentioned???
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
MonsterFishKeepers.com
Top Bottom