Unfortunately, no... EBJD's just don't make it. And the 1 in 10 that might make it, usually end up with some defect as they get older...
I almost fell for it last night at my LFS.. They had an EBJD in a tank by itself, it was 1.5" long, they only wanted $35 for it, and I watched it feed - it ate like crazy. I *almost* spent $300 to bring it home...but made myself do more research right there in the store, and pulled up what I already knew...they have a 99% fatality rate, no matter where you get them.
Regular JDs are FAR more robust in nature. That your female was perfectly fine, while your male wasn't is no surprise, and is no indication of poor water quality, or anything else.