HUH well Jinguyen ur point is very well taken ,,,,by certain people I meant my lanlord believe it or not i ve built a 3000plus tank in a rented townhouse ,,, seee,,,, i can get along great w/people when they let me have my way shhhhhhhhhhhjlnguyen74;4779762; said:So who is "certain people" do you need to convince for a tank upgrade?
fish tank vandalism
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..if it bothers you that bad uhh....talk to her about it? explain your feelings?. tell her why you dont like them...communication is key...dont brood about it and just wait to remove them..what if she decorates it for every holiday and you hate it?...TELL HER or she will never know and things build in to bad things when that starts happening.
Woman are emotional creaturs, youl often find instead of simply telling you they love you they will show you, sometimes in funny little ways, she was just being thoughtfull, obvoisly thought she'd give you a nice surprise man.
My advice, if you had a fight with her, apoligize, tell her you were a little shocked initially but now you see how sweet it is (it is really) and thank her, give her a hug. Just remember this is only a hobby and its only a tank, the stickers will come off, heck take a picture of it to let her know you care and apreciate the jesture.
while im not married ive been in a number of relationships one inparticular that lasted 10 years before we both decided it would be best if we were just friends due to different goals in life But i do know marriages are a verry special thing and if i were married there is no way i would pick a fight or make a big deal over stickers on a tank.
At the end of the day its just stickers and they will come off, she is your wife and was just trying to do something nice for you but if it buggs you just tell her in future a card and a box of chocolates would suffice lolz.
Stick this on ya tank-
http://e-2productions.com/wp-content/themes/scarlett/images/noworries.jpg
cheers-
Darren
My advice, if you had a fight with her, apoligize, tell her you were a little shocked initially but now you see how sweet it is (it is really) and thank her, give her a hug. Just remember this is only a hobby and its only a tank, the stickers will come off, heck take a picture of it to let her know you care and apreciate the jesture.
while im not married ive been in a number of relationships one inparticular that lasted 10 years before we both decided it would be best if we were just friends due to different goals in life But i do know marriages are a verry special thing and if i were married there is no way i would pick a fight or make a big deal over stickers on a tank.
At the end of the day its just stickers and they will come off, she is your wife and was just trying to do something nice for you but if it buggs you just tell her in future a card and a box of chocolates would suffice lolz.
Stick this on ya tank-
http://e-2productions.com/wp-content/themes/scarlett/images/noworries.jpg
cheers-
Darren
I dont get the whole ground rules bull.
Setting ground rules for a grown woman is just sad.
A real man should be happy with his wife/woman if she-
loves him, cares for him and the family as most do, listens to you (not your demands), willing to compromise, likes to roll in the hay, and is faithful.
If you can't get your point across without upsetting her then you really need to step back and look deep into yourself and figure what the F is wrong with you.
I kiss my girls azz not only because it's nice lol but she deserves it. Trust me I don't feel like any less of a man than others. My girl would die for me and I would do the same for her.
Plus I am a very difficult person. So I appreciate the crap she puts up with.
To the OP you are doing the right thing. She did not pour bleach in your tank so it's all good. As mentioned by one smart lady. Goo gone and it's gone. I don't think MFK is the best place for relationship advice lol
Setting ground rules for a grown woman is just sad.
A real man should be happy with his wife/woman if she-
loves him, cares for him and the family as most do, listens to you (not your demands), willing to compromise, likes to roll in the hay, and is faithful.
If you can't get your point across without upsetting her then you really need to step back and look deep into yourself and figure what the F is wrong with you.
I kiss my girls azz not only because it's nice lol but she deserves it. Trust me I don't feel like any less of a man than others. My girl would die for me and I would do the same for her.
Plus I am a very difficult person. So I appreciate the crap she puts up with.
To the OP you are doing the right thing. She did not pour bleach in your tank so it's all good. As mentioned by one smart lady. Goo gone and it's gone. I don't think MFK is the best place for relationship advice lol
The woman knows its my tank and she leaves it alone. I spend a lot of time working on them and she doesn't have to do a thing but she enjoys watching the fish. So this works out. Some of my fish like her so they will interact with her so that makes things easier.
quovadis;4779419; said:
Ok! How about who's the monster, who's the "baby," and who's the "I?"
quovadis;4657027; said:whos the monster now?
who decorates their house for valentines anyways? i'm about to decorate my place with KFC buckets, 40s and watermelon for mlk day
