I am shooting for once a week. I feel like I should be entitled to that. I tell my wife there is no difference if I am gone fishing or if I am gone at the gym... she doesnt quite see it that way haha. If I can get my 4 year old to go, at least that will take some load off of her shoulders. The other good news is, since I fish for flatties at night, once the kids wind down for bed, the hard work is over and hopefully I can sneak off.