Retuks;3523585; said:you guys, stop bashing him just yet..
what if he works at/near the petstore?
say he works at a mall in or near the petstore where he drives to work every day anyway?
its one thing to be the ignorant one who needs correcting in his ways, but for those of you who like to spot them out, be SURE you have no ignorance yourselves. and always be open minded.
besides.. if hes the one making the trips weekly (and not you) to get his water tested, im sure he'd figure out pretty fast that the gas prices exceeding the cost of a kit and that buying one would be wise. or if he takes public transport if he ever gets tired of taking the time for this. all this provided that he doesn't work near/live near the petstore and he takes his own time out of the day to do this, which we don't know yet.
all we can do (for any web forum member) is trust what they are saying. Trust that he does know what he's doing because really, if he doesn't. all will come to pass on each's own account anyway. nothing you could have done better than give help and information. which Bashing out of an itchy trigger finger on a touchy subject is not.
I don't think there's anything wrong with stating my preferences on testing. If I'm watching my fish at 3:00 a.m. and one of them is acting funny, I want to test. If I didn't own kits, I couldn't. I'd have to wait until the LFS opened. These are large, and growing huge, fish. If something goes wrong, especially as the volume gets smaller and smaller relative to bioload, things could go bad, quickly. I don't feel like it's bashing. I'm simply stating the standard of care that I hold myself to for the sake of my fish. The other problem is that when the OP took their water in, there was nitrite, and the person at the LFS apparently said that was okay. Obviously, it's not. There's something not right with the tank. So, who knows what the levels were days or a week before? The OP should be testing every day and trying to figure out what's wrong with their biological filter. The majority of the time, people who post about their sick fish have no idea what their parameters are. This can't merely be coincidence.