freakin cancer takin my mom over

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convict_breeder;993582; said:
well now hes losing eye sight and her headachs are becomeing worse ALOT worse then before now. she cant see straight and she only can see a foot anda half in front of her. so shes worsening alot now WAH WAH WAH WAH :( :( . and im now just realizing im losing the one person i admire and LOVED my whole life:cry: :cry: :cry: . stupid cancer why did u have to be invented or how ever u got here!! i hate u cancer!!!!!:irked: :irked: !!!!

jafiowsjfaijgfaowjgfaiojfaiowjpi now that i got that outa my system WISH MY MOM LUCK please
and for those who dont now what she has its:
glioblastomia multiforme grade 4 stage 3 or 4 dunno. she had it for 2 years and have 2 active tumers that are cancerious

wish my mom luck

and did anyone else lose there mom to brain cancer PLEASE TELL ME so i now im not the only one on here

i wish your mum the best. You are still quite young as well. Good luck and god bless your mum.
 
I am so sorry about your mom. Especially the kind of cancer she has. Just be with her and enjoy every minute you have with her.
Just a little background about myself regarding this cancer stuff. I lost my grandmother 17 years ago to cancer. It started out as breast cancer then spread to her bones and skin. She battled it for 2 years before she finally passed and is resting peacefully now.
I still have a very hard time dealing with it as she was a mother figure to me as well, but my teacher in school (way back then) told me to start a journal and write down all the positive and negative things about my grandmother so I would never forget the memories I had with her. Maybe that would help you too. Even after 17 years I still hold those memories very close to my heart.
You never forget your loved ones, the memories just become a little hazy after a few years.
CHERISH EVERY MINUTE YOU HAVE WITH HER.
 
I lost my mom to cancer 14 years ago.

Be there for her,its all you can do.Be the best person you can be,Im sure its what she would want.
 
OddBaller;993649; said:
you will go through several stages of mourning..... Denial.... ANGER...(BAD One)...Bargining.... Depression..... Acceptance.....

I'm not going to lie.... its very difficult.... the pain almost made me self destruct many times..... drugs, fighting, alcohol..... was my way of self medication.... ended up in Jail and alone by 18.... then i remembered that i was taught better than that...... my parents didnt want me to end up like this..... I got my SH*T together...... started working hard.... tried to learn and live as much as i can...... i became very independant ..... and strong willed..... theres nothing i cannot achieve.... (except grammer) Today i feel lucky to have gone throught what i went through young.... All my friend come to me for advice..... LIFE SHAPES you.... but you can point it in the direction you want it to go.....:headbang2
good for you.. you sound like you are sooo together and because of that you are giving sound advice
 
Filthy Sanchez;994307; said:
I feel for your mother my friend. I was recently diagnosed with cancer myself, and am currently undergoing chemo. Unfortunetly for me it is bone cancer and once it's in your bones it's incureable. I only hope that your mother is more fortunate than myself. Take care of her and be there for her it's one of the few things you can do, giving her comfort can take away some of the feelings of helplessness you'll feel.

i am sorry to hear this Sanchez and our prayers and thoughts go out to you.. you can win sometimes ..it happens every day.. or at least put it in remission.
 
convict_breeder;993657; said:
thanks. and ya i ahve depression disorder which suxs ass!!! and i use to mutilate myself AKA wrist cutting. but i stoped that. so thanks for ur advise and all thats very helpful to.

so thats why i have cichlids to keep me going when im depressed and all.

always try to stay focused .. pick out a goal and reach for it.. make Your MOM proud ..i believe they always see us..
 
This was one of the hardest threads ive ever read here on MFK

My thoughts are with you and everybody else going throu this....
 
JustLooking;994720; said:
My mom lost her battle with cancer last week,07-11-07.

I feel your pain,hang in there bro.

My sympathy to you and your family in the loss of your MOM..
 
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