Gr8KarmaSF;994868; said:
It is a stark reality when we go from fish talk to real human situations... your so right this has been one of the hardest threads i have ever read as well.
freakin cancer takin my mom over
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It is a stark reality when we go from fish talk to real human situations... your so right this has been one of the hardest threads i have ever read as well.
this just irrait me, my mom cant remember things but yet when she asks me bout stuff like what food was here and waht i ate she tells me no i rememmber that u didnt share any with me when infact i DID share food with her ( in this case its ice cream ). now when she sks me to check stuff for her and i did and she dont believe me she tells me she'll go check an trying to make me feel guilty all the time, that irraits me alot. but uh well shes my mom and shes dieing thats the hard part of life 
. and ya i wish all of u luck that are dealing with cancer in life!!
. and ya i wish all of u luck that are dealing with cancer in life!!
convict_breeder;995232; said:this just irrait me, my mom cant remember things but yet when she asks me bout stuff like what food was here and waht i ate she tells me no i rememmber that u didnt share any with me when infact i DID share food with her ( in this case its ice cream ). now when she sks me to check stuff for her and i did and she dont believe me she tells me she'll go check an trying to make me feel guilty all the time, that irraits me alot. but uh well shes my mom and shes dieing thats the hard part of life
alot of that comes from the medicine she is taking..and being sick.. try not to make a big issue out of it.. try to just smile at her and just apologise.. don't argue or blame her..i know it is tough on you but she is not doing it on purpose..she is not thinking clear.. so just give her a hug when you feel irritated..
Wow sucks I know for all of you. My mom had breast cancer but it was removed and cured through chemo so to speak. She was upset she lost her hair but after chemo it has regrown in no time at all and she's scheduled for reconstructive surgery soon. Also lost my uncle quickly to stomach cancer it was only diagnosed 3 days or so before he passed. Lost my aunt to lung cancer recently. Cancer really effects everyone's life.
I will say there is nothing you can do. You have to come to terms with what your mom has and although you're young you have to come to terms that death is a part of life. Hope every day for another day to spend with her and it's ok to want to talk to someone. Best Wishes.
I will say there is nothing you can do. You have to come to terms with what your mom has and although you're young you have to come to terms that death is a part of life. Hope every day for another day to spend with her and it's ok to want to talk to someone. Best Wishes.
What about when we are dead and gone? Will you love me then, does love go on?
Look at the stars in the sky, how they shine and glow; some of those stars died a long time ago;
Yet still they shine, in the evening skies..for, you see, Love, like starlight, never dies!!
A Big Hug, Little BIG Man. My thoughts are with you.
Miguel;995336; said:
What about when we are dead and gone? Will you love me then, does love go on?
Look at the stars in the sky, how they shine and glow; some of those stars died a long time ago;
Yet still they shine, in the evening skies..for, you see, Love, like starlight, never dies!!
A Big Hug, Little BIG Man. My thoughts are with you.
if thats to me then THANKS a bunch
ok thanks. o and the doc moved her to a full dex ( kinda like steriods * and no not the ones that buff u up * so now shes doing well i dont now shes sleeping )Miguel;995800; said:That's for you, yes....
OddBaller;993607; said:make your peace and let you mom know how much you really love her...... let her know you will be ok on your own...... she may be better of in less pain....... good luck..... death comes knocking to all our doors.... sometimes too early......
It couldnt of been said better. I wish you the best of luck to you and your mother.
