girl problems

[warmouth]

your in a great spot, keep your existing girlfriend, then start to get more physical with your friend, tell your friend you really care about her then ask her out BAM 2 girlfriends and double the fun. playa plaaaaaa

its not like your a married man live it up

be careful they dont find out about each other.. good luck man

Yeah I tried that once (I was dating one who turned into a contrrolling b---h, but was friends with all my friends, and I then fell for one of her friends who I just happened to work with) and it was working for awhile ......then I lost both girls and a set of tires and had to switch jobs; moral of the story is think with your big head....not your little one.

 

[jartist15]

This is stupid, don't listen to anyone just do you what want, it sounds like you have a great friend, and a good girlfriend, if you are considering dating your friend just because some people tell you to that is dumb, if you actually have emotions to her then maybe you should just break up with your girlfriend because you are not that interested

 

[jartist15]

i do actually have 2 best mates that r boys. they have been best mates since i was 10.

although last time i stayed at his the night and was extremely drunk.
i woke in the morning to see one of them laying next to me IMMIEDIATLY i lifted the covers to see if i still had clothes on...i did.

hahaha sounds like a good night though none the less

 

[SumoNinja]

I got to say i agree, guys don't have chick friends that they hang out with that they wouldn't do

that is a pretty brave generalisation..

I have a lot of female friends that I would under no circumstances do..

I think you see marriage the wrong way.. if you are to get married aren't you supposed to see it as an official bond between 2 lovers..

the way you guys set it up to be it just sounds like you are limiting yourselves.. I'm in no way saying this is wrong but if you are willing to promise to your kin, your family and for those who believe in god an eternity together.. shouldn't it be a happier moment than swearing of your friends.. say for example you are bisexual.. are you supposed to have no friends at all?

I have a lot of guy friends i don't see what wrong with have a guy as a friend...

i do actually have 2 best mates that r boys. they have been best mates since i was 10.

although last time i stayed at his the night and was extremely drunk.
i woke in the morning to see one of them laying next to me IMMIEDIATLY i lifted the covers to see if i still had clothes on...i did.

I just want to say to the ladies, and this is the truth, what I am about to tell you is true for MOST guys. not all, but MOST. If you have a lot of guy friends, most likely, it's true with them

guys are sex machines. we're like a Lion, we want to spread our seeds. we want to have multiple lioness in our pride

if you have best friends or even good friends that are guys, don't think that there is ABSOLUTELY NO WAY they would ever sleep with you. they've thought about it, trust me. unless they don't find you attractive. I've also had female friends who had secret crushes on me. I've also dated girls who was a friend first. and yea, like they say, your friendship will never be the same

if you were drunk with your guy friends, and made a move on any one of them, even if you had no intentions and just wanted to test them, don't be surprized if they don't reject your advances. I've had girlfriends in the past that had good looking friends that were also my friends as well. believe me, my imagination ran wild on some nights of partying. I had female friends that would sit on my lap and I wished in my mind I can honk some horns, but just can't,............

guys, agree? disagree?

 

[ettfettbranamn]

so how does a bisexual person handle this? they can't have friends? someone once told me; the definition of bisexual is the ability of sticking your hand down anyones pants and still be happy with what you find. you say this is the truth?

haha..

nvm.. I have a very strict personal code and sure, I agree with you, many people do a lot of stupid things but a relationship is worth nothing to me if I don't trust the other part.. and on top of that, I want my partner to be as happy as possible and I would never take away the opportunity for her to meet new friends, guys or girls.. If I do that I become an obsticle in the way of her freedom and her happiness..

If she does not choose me, I'm not what she anyways and I can move on with mine and she with hers'.. but then again, I'm not a protective guy.. me being jelous only comes in the way of my own happiness, I'm troubled with sheet that I can do nothing about unless I would "fritzl" her.. I'm amused when I'm at somewhere and some random a-hole starts hitting on my company, I can observe how she handles it, I'm with an attractive girl, if she doesn't handle it well I know she's just fun for the moment..

well.. my 0.2 on this matter..

 

[Diogenes]

my wife only had guy aquaintences from church and work and school when we were still dating

now that we're married, she has no guy friend(s), that's how I roll

she feels the same way

opposite sex best friend = trouble

sounds like you're really insecure. Social isolation is a form of abuse depending on the degree in which it's taken to. A relationship is all about trust. If you don't trust your wife then you need to seriously examine things.

To the OP:

I guess the best piece of advice I could give would be to just be honest. I've been cheated on and it sucks. It also comes back around. If you really like the friend then pursue that. If not ignore the trite advice you got telling you to date your friends. I've had some girl friends that I would never consider relationship material.

Having said all that, I agree that you should be having fun. I'm married now and it's great, but I got really lucky and met the love of my life. If she weren't so special and if I weren't married then I would be playing the field. Just make sure that you're honest with everyone involved.

 

[AFRO-thunder]

just because nobody said it before:

If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I got 99 problems, but a b***h ain't one

 

[biohazardcustomz]

just because nobody said it before:

If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I got 99 problems, but a b***h ain't one

 

[L021]

so how does a bisexual person handle this? they can't have friends? someone once told me; the definition of bisexual is the ability of sticking your hand down anyones pants and still be happy with what you find. you say this is the truth?

haha..

well.. my 0.2 on this matter..

0.2 is 20 cents isn't it?
And I have an unorthodox amount of bisexual friends, not being homophobic, I'm one of the only 2 straight people in my friends group. Furthermore, most of my friends are girls. If I really felt like it, I would not be surprised if I could have half the pride of lionesses (sp?) to be more than mates with me, but I don't. I don't have any real problem with polygamy, I'm a moralless lion, but for some reason I don't, never really found out why, but I don't think my current gf who usually hangs with others would approve Of course, we're both comfortable and secure enough that neither of us have to worry about that if we don't want the other partner doing it.

 

[ettfettbranamn]

0.2 is 20 cents isn't it?
And I have an unorthodox amount of bisexual friends, not being homophobic, I'm one of the only 2 straight people in my friends group. Furthermore, most of my friends are girls. If I really felt like it, I would not be surprised if I could have half the pride of lionesses (sp?) to be more than mates with me, but I don't. I don't have any real problem with polygamy, I'm a moralless lion, but for some reason I don't, never really found out why, but I don't think my current gf who usually hangs with others would approve Of course, we're both comfortable and secure enough that neither of us have to worry about that if we don't want the other partner doing it.

ok.. so you share my point on this more or less.. goodie..

I just wonder what the strict "guys/girls can't have friends of the opposite sex" people say about bisexual people.. can they have friends or not?