Girlfriend just left me.
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Thanks!johnptc;1538847; said:this is a great offer to someone in need
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I know what its like, and I feel for you poopers!
Let me know if I can do anything for you, I'd lend you a helping hand in a heartbeat!
Behemoth;1538048; said:
Ditto, persure your own interests for the moment and find out who you are without a girl friend you might supprise yourself.
Good luck and Cheers
PoopSmart;1537864; said:4 years 1 week and 1 day
How do you people deal with this?
I usually skate to clear my mind, but we are currently dealing with a crazy winter storm (freezing rain, ice, snow, frozen gas station burritos, you name it).
Try to sleep w/her best friend and make a video. Then send it to her..LOL..j/p
Seriously, love hurts and there is no such relationship that is perfect. It takes two. If the other is not willing to work out the issues then it's best to let go because it will never work out eventually. A solid relationship involves trial and tribulations. You have to experience the hardships in a relationship to make it solid. Just like a house a relationship requires a solid foundation. One you can build from and expand. If she gave you the line that she needed time to grow than perhaps she has grown out of the relationship and wants to experience new things. As we get older our minds develop to more of a mature state where you start to think about the future and the life you want to live.You have to ask yourself what was the causing factor that perhaps made her think otherwise to leave the relationship. To every story there are 3 sides. Yours, hers and the truth.
Yeah yeah, I know. I talked to her about it last night, and she was just saying how it was a lot harder for her to break up because I didn't do anything wrong, so I have that out of my head.
Yeah I guess its just growing up ya know? She was with me for a long time, she is 19 now, she wants to do stuff on her own (get a job, go to school, live her own life) and I can understand that. She is real cool though. She didn't want to just wait for me to get through college and live off me. I will probably still talk to her and stuff. I mean "going out" is just a phrase, its the feelings and emotions that really count. If she says, "We aren't going out," its just like me saying "I like cheese whiz." Maybe we aren't "going out", but we aren't on bad terms, maybe better terms than people who are "going out". I think its because we were such good friends. I don't actually even like cheese whiz, I think its a close relative of mayonnaise, and mayo is sick disgusting room temperature egg spread.
Anyway, I appreciate her doing this before we got too serious though. It makes it a lot easier.
Yeah I guess its just growing up ya know? She was with me for a long time, she is 19 now, she wants to do stuff on her own (get a job, go to school, live her own life) and I can understand that. She is real cool though. She didn't want to just wait for me to get through college and live off me. I will probably still talk to her and stuff. I mean "going out" is just a phrase, its the feelings and emotions that really count. If she says, "We aren't going out," its just like me saying "I like cheese whiz." Maybe we aren't "going out", but we aren't on bad terms, maybe better terms than people who are "going out". I think its because we were such good friends. I don't actually even like cheese whiz, I think its a close relative of mayonnaise, and mayo is sick disgusting room temperature egg spread.
Anyway, I appreciate her doing this before we got too serious though. It makes it a lot easier.
i've only had 1 relationship lasted for 3 years....i found out he had a 1yr old daughter.
bummer huh still not really over it. havn't had anyone else in the 9month sooooo yeah grrrr
altho i'd like to say go sleep around ....it won't make u feel better.
bummer huh still not really over it. havn't had anyone else in the 9month sooooo yeah grrrr
altho i'd like to say go sleep around ....it won't make u feel better.
PoopSmart;1539622; said:
Oh..no...she didn't feed you that line of, "It's not you, it's me", speech... =-(
At least she did it kindly. She obviously wants to move on, so you should do the same. It will probably just hurt you more if you talk to her. Specially if you hear she's seeing someone else.
"Anyway, I appreciate her doing this before we got too serious though"
I though you were with her for 4 yrs? You don't think this was a serious relationship? Were you guys just friends w/benefits? 4yrs sounds like a serious relationship.
princess;1539652; said:
Perhaps emotionally it won't but physically it will..LOL
So did your relationship end because of his 1yr old daughter when you found out? or was it the fact that he kept it from you?
