Update:
It's not shy towards people as I can approach and it would respond by coming out of the den. It tried to eat from the tong but got a bit shy so I just left em and watched it eat. It eats the frozen bloodworms but it's really slow about it. However today when I was feeding it, it poked it's head out of the water for a bit then casually slid out of the breeder and into the tank. Not sure what to do now. It isn't afraid of any of the fish as it just situated itself to the darker side with all the hides and tends to avoid the larger fish (bp and angels) it doesn't mind the company of the cory catfish but the loach are too clueless and keep running into it when they forage, the eel just moves out of the way but the loaches are pretty big compared to it and very annoying in the sense that they aren't spatially aware at all. So what to do, I don't want to stress it out by trying to recatch it unless necessary. I put it's hide from the breeder into the tank and left the breeder inside too if it ever swims back in (unlikely) but I'm debating on whether letting it stay or putting it back in. I never got to get it comfortable hand feeding so the best I can do is throw a ton of food and watch it gobble a bit. I'm going to get some sand and make a pile for it and I'm getting some live earthworms and some frozen brine shrimp when I find some.