Take some time, a week perhaps, then go on to find other people and just get out. Have sex, hook up, get drunk (even if you're not supposed to), challenge yourself, do anything to keep you active and far from serious stuff. It's what I've been doing for a year now and now I feel as if I'm better off single (for the time being) and screwing anything that moves... which sadly means mostly books since I've started another semester at the university and it's killing me already.
I was cheated on
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there is much to be said in this ^^^^
But take it from another once devorced now getting married again. Learn from the first to do better on the next.
First, if u wanted u could make it work. She regretted it u say. Second ur not in a serious relationship. Could be worse
That blows but it happens. I was cheated on once. It sucked a lot and it took a bit to get over, but in time I got over it and just as said.. I feel stupid for even being upset, now I am just glad I moved on to a billion times better. Breaking up and being dumped are two things you can be on the end of and both hurt, I ve been on both ends and it sucks but you will feel much better as time goes on. Sometimes it takes a few or many tries. As said before its better you found out now instead of years later and just wasting more time with her. Now you can find someone who is better than her. Now you have an opportunity to go enjoy your self, try new stuff, talk to other girls and date - nothing serious and just have fun, there is so much out there to do. Go out on a trip with friends or something. None of this will take the pain away right now, but the pain will go away in time, but these things will help you move on and enjoy your life, instead of wasting time locked up in your room upset over an idiot girl. Getting out helped me a lot. As for burning stuff- do it!! It will feel good to burn all of that stuff - I ve don it before, its like a relief almost.
Oh and I wouldn't take her back ever, even if she regretted it. My first ex told me he regretted it... I told him not to talk to me ever again (super glad I did too). If she did it once I would say that is not someone to be in a trusting relationship with.
Oh and I wouldn't take her back ever, even if she regretted it. My first ex told me he regretted it... I told him not to talk to me ever again (super glad I did too). If she did it once I would say that is not someone to be in a trusting relationship with.
1.Shake his hand for helping you (may not seem that way now but trust me i went through the same thing years back, i waisted my HS years)
2. Immediatley after shaking his hand, break that dudes face for slashing your tire
3. DO NOT i reapeat DO NOT go look for another GF. at 19 that should be last thing you worry about. Have fun with girls (you see the plural, no?)
4. Focus on OUR hobby, it gets you through everything
2. Immediatley after shaking his hand, break that dudes face for slashing your tire
3. DO NOT i reapeat DO NOT go look for another GF. at 19 that should be last thing you worry about. Have fun with girls (you see the plural, no?)
4. Focus on OUR hobby, it gets you through everything
u better slash his tire an beak all the windows out of his car then beat him with a bat not for sleeping with your girl but for slashing your tires come on u really think u were guna be with one girl your whole life boring!!!! thats more of a mithy then the bigfoot this ant the 50s no one stays with one girl any more women are more snakes than men
come on your 19 u need be getting it in now when your old you wish u wud of. grow some balls get a hooker an youll feel beter
come on your 19 u need be getting it in now when your old you wish u wud of. grow some balls get a hooker an youll feel beter
Of course if he does any of the violent things anyone has suggested you have publicly made it known that you are all accomplices and he has lost the defense of heat of the moment.
That's what I did. She was a terrible artists, couldn't even color inside the lines. Watching the crap drawings and coloring book pages burn was immensely satisfying. My current girlfriend is a much better artists and person.
I went through something similar, but it was after I came beck from Mexico with a mosquito borne illness. She was planning on leaving me beforehand, but waited until after the trip to do it. The selfish b**** wasted my entire vacation. After I got back she had someone else to the breaking up thing for her, hired some redneck thugs to kill me, I was shot at in a Target parking lot by one of them, and left with 3 years of therapy to recover from the PTSD. On top of that she was abusive, left me nearly blind in my right eye. I recently found out she had a kid. Not gonna lie, I feel bad for the kid.
If I were you I'd grab a stretched canvas or canvas board, some acrylic paint, and some brushes. Making wild, erratic brushstrokes lets a lot of anger out and can make for some interesting results.
Give it some time, meet new people. I waited nearly four years before dating again and I couldn't be happier.
I dont know where your from but where I was raised if some1 ****s your girlfriend and slashes your tire your getting your teeth smashed down your throat.
