is there a cure or pessimism? (vent/help)

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DeLgAdO

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im in this mood again :(

i hate being negative, but there any point in being positive??

there seems no point to live life, i dont even know how and never did.

Everything seems pointless and without reason

how do you even motivate yourself??? that "happiness comes from within" means nothing to me

happiness is alway short lived for me. :(

i use to wish i was dead just to end all the suffering and confusion, but i feel like im just waiting to die.

oh and i hate optomistics, they look down on and put down the pessimistic further instead of helping, they show darkness instead of the light.

friends would be nice, if i had any, it sucks being unique, you guys are the closes thing to friend that i have.

help me :(
 
DeLgAdO said:
im in this mood again :(

i hate being negative, but there any point in being positive??

there seems no point to live life, i dont even know how and never did.

Everything seems pointless and without reason

how do you even motivate yourself??? that "happiness comes from within" means nothing to me

happiness is alway short lived for me. :(

i use to wish i was dead just to end all the suffering and confusion, but i feel like im just waiting to die.

oh and i hate optomistics, they look down on and put down the pessimistic further instead of helping, they show darkness instead of the light.

friends would be nice, if i had any, it sucks being unique, you guys are the closes thing to friend that i have.

help me :(
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I've been in the same boat many times........ I now consider myself a realist....... be yourself and don't feel a need to conform....... not in the sense that you rebel against everything....... but don't sell yourself short of your "principles"...... thats how you lose site of your soul....... we're all waiting to die....... so what? get over it..... Life is more than finding a mate to copulate with...... I've spent countless hours reading and researching how to better myself....... from books to audio tapes...... seminars etc........ it helped alot and i acheived many of the goals i set in record time.......... then something happened that rocked my boat again....... put me back on my ass....... made me realise i dont know squat and i cannot stop learning....... point is....... you need to find something to motivate you....... it can be money..... women...... fish....... or my personal favorite....... "world domination"....... don't worry what others think........ and find what makes you tick........ just off the top of my head...... i recently read a really good motivational book....... it called "The Strangest Secret" by Earl Nightingale........ its a short read....... i got a ton of other suggestions....... but try this first.......... good luck
 
Man you are intelligent. You've got a knack for things allot of people dont... SOmetimes the point is there is no point. When i get in a certain mood it's usually the world that suffers :( I have been to the lowest of the low and the highest of the high...

Success is what you name it. Like you and Oddball said we are all waitin to die, some of us are just workin on gettin there faster than others... I am workin on packin as much stuff into what i get to have here as possible.. Hence overstocked tank... LOL I haven't read the particular book that Odball suggested, but he's older and read more than i... I've read quite a bit myself.. But it sound like a good start :)


You can change your mood if you want to... But you have to want to. And you need a plan .. Insight is a start.. so you caught this mood a little after it started.. I usually right down the things that led up to a modd i don't like.. Then i start looking at the other side of the mood and how my perception could have been skewed... Then i get down to business.. How the _____ do i change the mood i'm in.. Well i figure out how i want to feel and sometimes i fake it til i make it>>> Cliche's work after enough time.. Right a gratitude list .. Or sheese maybe a list of all the things you are ungrateful for.. But still self love is where it starts.. So when you start feeling worthless and there is no light at the end of the tunnel. Find the root.

same begets same :) If you want it bad enough you'll find a way... This to shall pass..

Hope it clears fast :)
 
Unfortunatley mate I have no advice I can give you...

But I hope you get back on track and i'm sure everyone here at MFK does too :thumbsup:
 
Man that is some heavy ****e, I would talk to someone about that. I am serious, you are far to young(right?) to feel that way. Life is too short to battle those feelings on a consistent basis, get that crap resolved and live it. GL
 
i cant even sleep

turned my computer off and went to bed.

listend to my ipod for half and hour to try and fall asleep.

took it off and just closed my eyes. an hour later, a bowl of cereal and a hot pocket here i am.

i cant stop thinking :cry:
 
blt70 said:
Man that is some heavy ****e, I would talk to someone about that. I am serious, you are far to young(right?) to feel that way. Life is too short to battle those feelings on a consistent basis, get that crap resolved and live it. GL
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it doesnt help, it goes away but then it comes back! :cry: :swear: and i try to resist as hard as i can, but it wins.

eventually talking stops relieve period.
 
Don't resist then.. Accept and let it pass through you.
 
i think you are just getting worked up over the whole mod discussion thing. you just got really excited and wired and cannot sleep.
 
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