Maybe I'm overthinking this...

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Pharaoh;4410881; said:
I admit, I didn't read the whole thing, but I have read enough. DUMP him, There are tons of way cooler Indy people to hang out with. We even have a club, hint hint, wink wink.
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AHH I live 3 HOURS from Indy!! (:
Deff might come up for a visit. haha


Well, I'm having a MAJOR talk with him this weekend, I just watched my other manager go through this tonight, as he was my ride home since my car is in the shop.. Get it back tomorrow WHOOOT!
But anyways, I watched him go through the same stuff with his girl that I'm dealing with. I feel him on it, only they have a daughter, so theirs is a bit more.. rough?

My mother says not to take someone advice and go by what they say, I told her how I came to you guys, just for an opinion because you are outside the picture, she said it helps sometimes but not to let you guys influence me. BAHA, you guys have helped SOO much on this its not even funny.

Balton; I am to young for marriage, we were gonna wait a few more years but I honestly don't see it working.


COOKIE: you're now me NEW bestfriend on this (: You're comment made my night SOO much better. Thank you babe.
I am pretty alone in this, I need adventure in my life because thats the type of person I am.. He isn't, we have like nothing in common anymore.

I have to personally agree with everyone, I need out of this.
I talked to one of my better friends tonight, he's like a brother to me and he said its not worth it if I'm not happy. I agree.


I will keep you guys updated to what happens this weekend!
Check back if you want to find out how it went. (:
 
misstish;4415306; said:
My mother says not to take someone advice and go by what they say, I told her how I came to you guys, just for an opinion because you are outside the picture, she said it helps sometimes but not to let you guys influence me. BAHA, you guys have helped SOO much on this its not even funny.

I have to personally agree with everyone, I need out of this.
I talked to one of my better friends tonight, he's like a brother to me and he said its not worth it if I'm not happy. I agree.
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Your mother is right. We can only advise you to the best of our experience and while outside advice can be good you should always decide for yourself because only you truely know the situation and only you can judge it properly.
Also, this is the net and while we have no vested interest in whether you do or don't dump him we are strangers here. It is just something to consider when taking advice from here on board.
Saying that sometimes it just takes a fresh perspective to help you take that step you knew you needed to take but just needed a bit of encouragement.

Your happiness is all that matters, if you aren't happy then there is no point to it. I found this out from bitter experience when I was about your age.

Good luck :)
 
Okay, so normally he calls/txt while I'm at work when he goes on break. i kinda didn't expect it tonight, so I was like whatever. But when I said something to him about he sent me back my own text I sent him earlier about being a dick.

WTF!?

Now he is ignoring me. This saturday talk is going to come ALOT sooner. I'm taking back my house key first.
 
You only know what you need to do.... so do it. My other input on the the "talk" from a perseonal experience.... it doesnt work.... you either dump him or you dont.... you can't just "talk" to someone and expect them to change..... I had a "talk" and yeah... just wasted an extra month of my time to figure out it just goes in one ear and out the other ..... thats just my experience.

Only you will know what is needed in the situation.. good luck.
 
i find it odd that you call him your fiance but feel the need to wait for marriage...and are questioning things....isn't a fiance the person you've already made the promise that you want to spend the rest of your life with them? You're one step away from being married to the guy but have huuuuge glaring holes and question marks. I don't get why people put themselves in that situation. It's like marriage is taken too lightly. Y'all should know weither or not you want to spend the rest of your life together before you accept the engagement ring.

anyways, i hope you figure out what to do and you end up happy in the end, weither it's with him or someone else. Everybody deserves a good partner that'll help them get where ever they're going in life.
 
starting to feel sick of hearing about that waste of space. dump him, girl. get yourself a new and even better man. its clear that he is a HABIT and nothing else. seems like he isnt even a habit that has its uses.
 
Hey gf! :)

I've been in your position before, and likely more than once. It leads to feeling taken for granted, one day exploding and leaving (in my case at least lol). I've stayed in relationships because I loved that person even tho I knew they weren't the right person. It can only go so far. When you find that "right" person, you will know it, and so will he. There's a lot of compromise in true love. The easier it is to compromise with your lover, the more happy and in love you will be with each other. Honesty and trust is also the forefront of any withstanding relationship as I'm sure you know as well.

Btw, take what I say as a grain of salt in the sea quickly on it's way to dissolve, all this is in my own personal experience and I have yet to find that "right" person myself. I've found many "maybe's", and thought long and hard about one....but I'm still single and creeping, I mean looking.
 
haha creepy and single. (:

Okay so no talk, straight to the point right?
Got it,
now he is mad because I plainly stated my fish and snakes come before him and always will. HAHAHA
Whatever, Im done, he is out the door as of now, just doesn't know it (:

You guys are amazing with advice! (: Thanks again. EVERYONE.

I personally love out Cookie and Neervana stat the facts.
Made me laugh and my day better. I've had a rough one,

I'll let you know how he takes the news.
 
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