One of the cichlids I have kept is Nandopsis haitiensus, popularly called the "black nasty" because it often doesn't tolerate any cichlid tank mate, in even the largest tanks.
But consider that where they come from, there are no other species of cichlids on the island.
So to me, the idea that they wouldn't be good in a community setting should be obvious.
Even some mainland cichlids should be recognized as such.
Mayaheros beanii was mentioned earlier in the thread, and much like haitiensus, there are no other cichlid species found in the rivers they inhabit.
So this should also be an obvious clue as to how they should be kept. If an aquarist disregards this natural life style, then adds it to a cichlid community and ends up with just one cichlid standing, is it because the beanii is "mean" or has the aquarist just made bad, uninformed choices.

On a more commonly available cichlid front, I have watched normal sized JDs in nature defend a territory of about 250 gallons, but the general consensus is they can be comfortably kept in a 75 gal tank. Watching them in nature, tell a slightly different story
In the video i took in a Cenote in Mexico below, at about the 50 second mark a JD defends its territory from all other cichlids, the territory is minimally about 250 gallos, and it only breaks off its chase at about 4ft. To me this means if you want to keep any other cichlid with the JD, the tank have 4 ft of space just for the JDs alone, so even a 6 ft tank as a community will only give other cichlids 2 ft of living area.
JDs and Catfish of Cenote Cristalino