For me its just convincing my boyfriend... And when he says no, I just pay my friend to go pick it up and deliver it to the house when were both at work. That way he can't say no! And plus women have ways of getting what we want ;] Right now I'm trying to convince him to let me have a 250g, stand, awesome filter, hood, whole deal, for $500. I think the guy I'm getting it from is insane! And I would be insane for not getting it! My boyfriend says we're going to have to swim to get to our bedroom but I'm okay with that :]