well i caught this one a little late but i kind of have the same problem but its with the wife, so in our living room we started out with a 10, it grew to a 30, it grew to a 45, it grew to a 55, so about a month ago i decided a wanted a red tail cat, well i knew i had to get a bigger tank, so i took the old lady to the lfs and showed her the baby red tail, now realize she knows nothing about this fish except its a pretty fish with a red tail lol, so we get it, well so now i convince her we need a bigger tank, so i get on craigslist and find the best deal on a big tank, 150g, so i get it home and i take it straight to the living room, well she says babe you already have a 5,10,30,45,and a 55 in the living room, and i say well babe i will make this one pretty just for you....for you young kids out there you HAVE to be whipped sometimes. so i get it set up, i put some nice sand in it and took her to the lfs to get her some fish, well she wanted some guppies, mollies, and platys.......so im like ok food for my fish lol. but i dont tell her that. so we get home and dump them in, the tank is all pretty now. so a few days back i put the red tail in the his new home.....with his little friends hahahaha. well the first night went by with nobody missing, next night went by with nobody missing........last night was not so good. the cat ate his little friends, boy o boy o boy now i got to do something about it. so now i get the whole garage to build him a BIG old pond! see there thats how a man takes care of business and get what he wants lol she thinks im whipped well i just cracked the whip............very quitely hahahahahaha