thanks for the replies.
Midas Iam using a 100-300mm lens lol. I have to stand like 15 feet away which is literally in my restroom. I finally got far enough in the manual to adjust the Fstop and all that( again a noob here) and will go rent a macro lens if these guys hatch. They are still here, i rushed home for lunch to peek. I have a power compact 4x65watts that i will place on the tank just for photo, but for now i will let these 2 relax a bit.
As a side note: the tank is literally at my bed side. I noticed them dancing for the last few days and yesterday i covered half the tank with a towel and bam-O. maybe after this is done I will move the tank to the otherside of the room.