Why would you ask a question on here if you're not gonna listen to the answers? And then write people off and say that you can't trust them? Well in the end all we can do is offer our wisdom, if you don't listen then alrighty then, but don't diss people when they offer their wisdom. If you don't want to listen to us, leave the forum, you don't want our opinions so why are you even here? There is no way to verify if any evidence that any of us present is 'real', or if any of our experiences is 'real', so it's just as easy to write us off. If you don't want to listen to us, then you simply won't, regardless of what we say.
So yes, as above. Good luck.