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OK, some of these posts are getting very hurtful.

I totally understand about depression & needing to feel needed. The 13 cats I had when I was all alone, kept me alive too--doesn't mean I was doing them any favors by keeping them all in a small apartment, breeding all over the place. I was very young (your age) & very messed up. Now, I'm older, wiser & trying to help out the animals in my path--to make up for the ones I had harmed in my past, by not knowing any better. I'm trying to help you to know better.
 
KvltBird;4614045; said:
Fancy goldfish obviously is the same level of care as a pufferfish. Amirite?

Thanks for your sarcasm. I sincerely appreciate the fact that I asked for help and you reply with this. That's wonderful. :(
 
Pufferpunk;4614054; said:
OK, some of these posts are getting very hurtful.

I totally understand about depression & needing to feel needed. The 13 cats I had when I was all alone, kept me alive too--doesn't mean I was doing them any favors by keeping them all in a small apartment, breeding all over the place. I was very young (your age) & very messed up. Now, I'm older, wiser & trying to help out the animals in my path--to make up for the ones I had harmed in my past, by not knowing any better. I'm trying to help you to know better.

I thank you for that. But I still feel attacked. And it's very difficult to take advice from people that I feel are yelling at me. I want to do right for my boys. But I don't want to get rid of them. My counselor said it was a good thing for me to have my boys because it keeps me out of trouble and I am happy when I have them to take care of.
 
KvltBird;4614060; said:
Signing off. Do some actual research on your own before you come looking for sympathy from people who've been around the block and laugh at your efforts. It will save you heartache. This is like going into a fine restaurant in shorts and a tshirt.

I wasn't looking for sympathy. I honestly just wanted to make sure what I was doing was at least on the right track.
 
KvltBird;4614053; said:
You sound like a borderline psychopath. Unstable people like you shouldent even care for an animal. IMHO
Frankly, you should keep your humble opinion to yourself. There is no need for such a personal attack.
 
How sad will you feel when those boys are all dead? I'm sorry to tell you this but there is absolutely no way those fish can live in that tank for any length of time--not even weeks. No way around it.

I'm not sure what subjects you are studying but if you're in college, you must have some smarts. See if you can understand the cycling process, the microbes that exist that eat fish's waste & the fact that there just isn't enough water volume to dilute that waste for a fish that produces the amounts of waste a puffer of that size does, nor is there enough surface area for the waste-eating microbes to colonize on.

http://www.**************.com/forum/library/water-filtration/aquariummicrobespart1/
http://www.**************.com/forum/library/water-filtration/aquariummicrobespart2/

Please read these both a few times--it's complicated.

If you really love those boys, you will do what's right for them.
 
Pufferpunk;4614085; said:
How sad will you feel when those boys are all dead? I'm sorry to tell you this but there is absolutely no way those fish can live in that tank for any length of time--not even weeks. No way around it.

I'm not sure what subjects you are studying but if you're in college, you must have some smarts. See if you can understand the cycling process, the microbes that exist that eat fish's waste & the fact that there just isn't enough water volume to dilute that waste for a fish that produces the amounts of waste a puffer of that size does, nor is there enough surface area for the waste-eating microbes to colonize on.

http://www.**************.com/forum/library/water-filtration/aquariummicrobespart1/
http://www.**************.com/forum/library/water-filtration/aquariummicrobespart2/

Please read these both a few times--it's complicated.

If you really love those boys, you will do what's right for them.

I am a graphic design major. I will be taking a BIO course next semester... Maybe that will help me more...?
 
Pufferpunk;4614116; said:
Next semester will be too late. Do you understand at all what I'm telling you? Please be open minded, for the sake of the fish you care so much for.

I am being open minded. I have read what you told me to read. I am doing the best I can. I was just throwing it out there that I will most likely understand all this better after the BIO course.
 
Alright kids, I’ve sat back and read all five pages of this ridiculous post. And now I’m chiming in:
First of all, when someone asks for help taking care of their fish, you either give them proper advice or get off their monsterfish lawn. “OMG you’re a horrible person” is neither constructive nor within proper etiquette, as I’ve read it (and trust me I just did).
Kvltbird: You work in a fish store? I’m curious as to what your other qualifications are, because I don’t see any. Maybe she can do her own research, but you were giving advice in the beginning and from what I can see you didn’t even bother to ask what kind of puffer fish they were until she told you herself. Any scientist worth their salt knows not to give advice until they have ALL the information. What PetSmart have you been going to that sells Pacus? And while we’re at it, get off your high horse about animal hoarders and impulse buys. Kindly STFU.
Pufferpunk: Please don’t get me started on you. I make 1000 gallons of seawater a week, with marine salt, you do not put it in a 10gal aquarium for dwarf puffers. And don’t sit there and say you’re trying to help when all you’re doing is berating her when she came to you. You want her to start doing her own research? Then bugger off and let her do it. And if these fish can’t live in that tank for any length of time, then how have they been ALIVE FOR TWO TO THREE MONTHS?! You keep telling her to read and you don’t even do it.
Xrayjeeper83: You do not need a 90 gallon tank for dwarf puffers. Learn to read.
Jrc3: If you’re recommending 1 or 2 dwarf puffers, why are you recommending she take all three of her dwarf puffers in? Other than that, I have nothing bad to say about you. Well done.
CLEARLY the lot of you missed the part of the first post where she said she’s had them for TWO MONTHS on the exact same cycle she described in the first place, and they are fat happy little buggers from the looks of it. If they haven’t died yet, why exactly do you think they’re going to die in a day if she doesn’t make these changes you’re insisting on? You’re more likely to shock them to death by over “correcting” their current ecosystem.
Oh and for those of you curious about what qualifications I have to be making these statements, you may refer to my marine science degree and fifteen plus years of caring for aquarium fish, including working at an actual aquarium, not just a dinky little pet store. Oh and the five or so years researching sharks and marine ecosystems is helpful too.
Annoyedly,
Someone Who Knows Better
 
I read and also saw under her aquarium info that she has 3 GSPs. If her pictures show DPs, they would not open for me.
 
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