Noob to snakes and I have questions.

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Maybe I have a different view because I had snakes from such a young age, but I don't think the species is a big deal as long as you're teaching your son how to handle them and behave around them properly and care for them.
At his age you are going to be doing most of the work anyway and he's going to be mostly standing by and learning (hopefully).

Since I was about 5 me and my dad had:
Corn snakes, Black rat snakes, Ball python, Black mexican king snake, and various other kings, Gopher snake, Pine snakes, Indigo snakes, Garter snakes, Northern water snake, and several more that I can't remember offhand. They all had their own interesting qualities, but I'd have to say my favorite was our mexican king snake. Second favorite our corn snake and third our black rat snake.
I also got to handle and view a lot of species through our breeder, which is really something I recommend if you can find someone in your area that keeps and/or breeds a lot of species (and is of course reputable). That way your son can decide if there's a certain species he really likes. Another good thing to attend if you can find one is a reptile show.

Oh and maybe I'm one of the only ones, but I actually think a corn snake would NOT be the best first snake. I think he would get bored with that pretty quick. Some kind of king snake would be better IMO, they're generally equally docile, and many colors and species to choose from. He may actually decide on one of those over a python if he gets to see how many choices there are.

And this one isn't a snake, but we also had an eastern glass lizard, which are very snake-like. Not something I would recommend if your son wants to handle it a lot, they really do not like being held in the least though they'll learn to tolerate it, but more interactive than a snake, mainly I think because they can actually hear you and learn to listen for your voice.
Ours did enjoy being touched it seemed, as he would crawl over and appear to "ask" for attention, but handling was pretty much off limits.
Not really sure how available glass lizards are at this point as I've not searched for reptiles in quite a long time.

I love her and a boid or a Python would not be abel to sit on the molding over the door and wait for her

Maybe, but she would probably be equally unimpressed if it came up out of a couch or chair next to her. No matter what kind of snake, if it gets out she's probably gonna find it somewhere unexpected, lol.
 
ya That is why she doesn't want one :D

Thansk for the input!!
 
lol My hubby was so dead set against snakes, we went through something similar. I consider myself somewhat experienced, but far from an expert. By the way the kids are 4 & 5 now. If I could pick a snake for myself that would be ok for the kids to handle & learn about I'd think about ball pythons, carpet pythons, sand boas, hog island boas. The corns/kings I've had were squirmy & one was either stolen by company or escaped from an enclosure with a very tight fitting lid.

Handwashing is very important. And I would really recommend at least a fecal from a vet with reptile experience.

With my hubby saying "no snakes, until the kids are old enough". Vague & if I want a snake in a few years I've softened him up to the idea by now. I went with crested geckos. My kids do really well with supervised handling, and accept the hand washing rules. A guy I was talking to at a reptile show said that his 8 year old daughter had a 6 ft red tail of her own. But he was breeding & was experienced. I'd also think about a lock on the cage, more so there is no one opening the cage & handling without permission or leaving the cage open accidentally. I haven't gotten around to a lock yet, it would make me feel better but so far my kids don't try to open the cage. *crossing fingers*
 
Part of the "ask me for forgiveness later" comment she made was it better have a LOCK he cannot get into :D
 
Well I think i have decided on a Ball. There is a pastel Ball that looks good.. But I am still reading and getting on board with my locals ;)
 
Kioka;1446159; said:
Can a mod split the thread? I can hear the train derailing!

I still think Tongue33 should select which one he wants, and then ask the kid which one of the choices that he want his dad to look after. So if the kid still want it 6-10 years down the line, then it is "his." If not, then Tongue33 has the snake he want.

But really... no matter how you break it down... you have the Carpet Pythons, Ball Pythons and Antaresia Pythons being the most accessible of all the pythons out there.


Sorry but a carpet is way to big for a child of that age...

I agree with Ophi on this one.
Ball/Royal python.
They tend to be a species that will just curl into a ball when prodded/poked by young hands (and mine too :ROFL:) rather than bite and are nice heavy bodied yet gentle snakes.

You'd be lucky if a female reached 5 with royals, and its unlikely a male will reach four, but it could happen so me thinks male.

This is my female
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And this is my young male
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And my young male pastel, I could see you having fun with this one, theyre gorgeous!

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imo they are the perfect boid, small, yet plump and for the most part extremely tolerant and docile. You can see what I mean by the males curling into a ball in the pics, they just do that when they have had enough or are scared rather than biting. Theyre pretty tough snakes when it comes to handling and theres not much damage small hands can do.

Corn snakes almost always reach over 4' and although they arent fat snakes they are still very active and large snakes to be handled.

If a royal doesn't take your fancy perhaps a kenyan sand boa? Rosy boa perhaps? Or of course a spotted python but I definately would not go with a carpet python..they just get to big for a child that age. Although beautiful snakes to keep...I couldn't think of a worse pet to choose than an adult carpet python tame or not even in a few years when your childs abit older...
Hope this helped.
 
p.s excuse the mess in the backround..not long came in so my bag and stuff was flung on the floor :grinno:
 
davo;1446827; said:
not about care so much, although I'm sure it comes into it, but more what is a suitable pet snake for a five year old/younger child... IMO corns are 100% perfect for this.

Not saying there aren't others though. I just think to dismiss it totally would be silly.


Agreed, I'd reccomend a corn snake over a carpet python for a 5 year old any day....
However corns are abit wiggly hence my choice of royals but still..:D
 
Corns, kings, milks, etc are a little too fast for the kids. My 3 years old daughter has a hard time handling her milk snake. She absolutely loves her Kenyan sand boa. Small size and slow. Some ball pythons will stop feeding and you end up having to force feed them for a bit. I would look at the sand or rosey boas for a great 1st snake for a child.
 
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