Would adding a larger airstone help with the oxygenation of the water going into the filters?Understood. No biggie and I respect your space and reasons, as stated.
The tank can run for 10 years problem free with a smaller bioload and then not be able to handle higher bioload.
If the bioload is about the same and the tank handled it before and now doesn't, this means something significant has changed. Only you can figure out what.
One area many overlook in filtration is that the water entering biofilters must be highly aerated, the higher the better. Otherwise the limiting factor in your biofilteration capacity will be dissolved oxygen concentration in the water entering your filter, not the size of the filter, not the amount of media or its surface area, not the flow rate through the filter.
I don't want to create too much surface movement, because I don't want to stress the gars out.