i think he has like trauma or smt from when the oscars ganged up on him or smt as stupid as it sounds LOL. but i do think thats why he is so skittish. hopefully he gets used to me and knows to come up to the glass for food like other owners experience i think its so neat how they come up to you knowign u have food.
I guarantee that time will come lol. Aro will see your shadow and will be waiting for you.