yeah, im definately not saying ditch her. she needs big time help. its only a matter of time before he hurts her really bad or kills her. i dont necessarily agree with native stealing her away, but in this case he should. this girl needs a dose of nice guy!
so confused....
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thats another one of my issues the whole boyfriend thing. im a confident guy (cocky if you ask my girlfriend) but i know when im better for a girl than her current situation and i tend to steal the guys girl
azfishfool;1865989; said:
ya, im gunna push it next weekend when i see her and see what happens.
she started cryin on the phone and got mad AT ME and hung up...like 20 mins ago... she started crying cause i mentioned the Marines thing and me goin to Boot soon. when i told her not to cry and id talk to her about it later...she got mad and hung up
wtf?Honestly, just be there for her. She is really the only one who can change anything. If you force the issue, you could find yourself out a friend. I don't understand why girls stay with someone who beats them either, but I do know unless she wants it to end, and wants out, it's not going to stop. I lost my best friend a long time ago, because her man beat the crap out of her, several times, she would come to me all black and blue, a bloody nose a busted mouth...and I would "be there" for her, she would go on and on about how she wanted out, then when I did try to speak up for her and help her, by telling her we needed to call the police and she could stay with me she went back to him, and quit coming to see me, she quit calling me and told me to leave her alone it was her life...I was stunned, but nothing I could do about it. Good luck, hopefully she will open her eyes and get out.
i hear stories from some people who i use to work with that back in the day if someone beat their wife or gf there fathers would get together, take the guy out and beat him good......everything was handled by the neighborhood. you get out of line, you learned a lesson. i think we need to get back to that. im sick of hearing stories about how someone was beaten or stalked. woman has restraining order on guy but the cops cant watch him 24/7 so he ends up just going to where she lives and beating her bad or killing her.
im on a coed softball team and one of the ladies just quit. seems her fiancee didnt like the fact that she was playing with guys. and thought we were flirting with her.. he was at the game, wtf? from what i hear he is real controlling. and shes gonna marry this guy??!?!??! hes got her manipulated good.
thats how this guy is. insecure too...
but threatening to "break both his legs" kinda set me off...
but threatening to "break both his legs" kinda set me off...
