no problem spankbelly! i can see it from your point of view also. i dont know you, but i get the idea that you have been through alot of really bad stuff so far in your life, and that molds who you are, and you have developed survival instincts to protect you. i work in mental health, and we have 28 acutely ill patients on my ward that cannot survive out in society. when they hit me, or are abusive or call me names (or if i have to help tackle them into restraints and strap them to a bed) i have to remember that they are hurting too- and what would i be like if i were in their shoes? my heart goes out to them.
i totally agree with you in that humans are complex. there are various facets of our personality that are formed in the most important years of human development-childhood. whether they are good or bad traits, they are what make us unique and help us cope with things noone should have to.
no hard feelings! im always a good listener, and try to see things from all angles-especially if i get frusterated. i know im not always right (even though i am a woman lol-kidding), and i try to be fair.
nativelover-have you seen or talked to this girl lately? when do you leave for boot?
i totally agree with you in that humans are complex. there are various facets of our personality that are formed in the most important years of human development-childhood. whether they are good or bad traits, they are what make us unique and help us cope with things noone should have to.
no hard feelings! im always a good listener, and try to see things from all angles-especially if i get frusterated. i know im not always right (even though i am a woman lol-kidding), and i try to be fair.
nativelover-have you seen or talked to this girl lately? when do you leave for boot?
