Thx petspoiler. This is tough and kind of exactly how the convo went with the back dr. Usually goes lol He felt i should have had the fusion 3 yrs ago when i first got hurt but my job would never have let me come back full duty and eventually have medically seperated me. At the time my son was 3 and daughter was just born, i felt like i was on top of the world back then, kickin ass and takin names later lol
I begged the dr to atleadt try the less evasive surgery because at least my job would allow me to return. Recovery was hell but got better and the dr was pretty sure i would be where i am today more sooner than later due to the nature of my job.. i just didnt want want to believe him.
Aaah so now the big question is 3 years with nerve impingment past the point of a positive outcome if i opt for the fusion ?
Geez who am i to complain though could be allot worse
There is no way to know what length of time is the point of no return. it depends on how much the nerve is being pinched and what damage that is doing to it.
I can tell you the what my neurosurgeon told me before surgery, when I asked about my prognosis. "How ever long your nerve has been being adversely affected, after surgery that length of time will be when your nerve has recovered to about the best outcome...whether 6 months or 3 years or 8 years" but the longer you let it be smashed, the worse your outcome chances are.
so, if you've had nerve symptoms for 3 years, 3 years after surgery you will know. whatever remains after that is probably permanent or will improve so slowly that you may not realize much.
However, you may have a large amount of improvement right away. the remainder is slower improvement. the first years improvements are more rapid than later years. That is how it went with me. So question is, how long do you want to wait for getting to your best and finding out? wanna add on a couple more years and some permanent pain or other limitations, such as numbness or reduced movement? Or do you want to get your butt in gear ASAP and hope for no permanent damage- or at least a lot less of it? Time is your enemy before surgery.
I was much like you, in my pre-surgical thoughts.
My surgeon did not even tell me he was going to do the max amount of repair (or ask my opinion of choices beforehand!) about possible bone graft, fusion, rods & screws etc. because he knew I was a dumbass. He used his own experience & best judgement. I do not know whether he consulted my husband while I was under anesthesia. I would have not wanted the recovery pain of taking the hip bone graft.
I believe that most of my damage occurred from the time when I started being in constant, unrelenting pain. for years it would come and go. I believe if I had gotten fixed immediately at the point of being total hell, I would have been at 100%.
Dont be a dumbass like me.
I think you need to stop over-thinking it. You can not know how every detail will turn out. but you can improve your odds by moving faster on this. You will definitely worsen the outcome by procrastinating. if you don't trust your surgeon find another one.