Dude, there is no reason to be a jerk about this.
Your situation sounds like your ray is in a lot worse shape than mine, and that you need someone to actually focus on your ray, and give you the most advice about it that they can.
And why would you try to give me advice about my issue if you can't even help yourself with yours? The issue is not food, as there is plenty left even when everyone is done eating, and she's bitten the smaller ones more than the big male. He's only got one small knick, and he is not mature or even bothering her. So, both of your helpful scenarios can be ruled out.
there is no reason to get your panties all up in a bunch because I recommended that you make your own thread. When you have an issue, that's what you are supposed to do.. make a thread so the people can help you out.
When I said about information getting mixed up, it's very possible when there is more than the OP stating they have an issue in a thread. You stated that you were keeping your ray in a sump... it's very possible that someone could have thought that was me, and tried to give me advice, but it wouldn't apply because I don't have a sump.. or someone could have advised what to do about the cloudy eyes, and not mentioned that's what it's for, and I could have done what they said, and ended up killing my ray. Do you get my point?
I tried to be nice, and explain that it would be better off that you make a thread for your issue, but yet somehow you're getting pissed off?
Chill out.