Wow you said it better than I ever could, Couldn't agree more
I remember the feelings of dismay and embarrassment at every new godawful campaign and act they unleashed on the public, before finally swearing off them. There's so much to be said for leading by example.
Even in this thread the backlash and consequence of their brand of aggressive extremism and hypocrisy is visible, instead of simply trying to justify their choices (and in that process truly thinking about their actions), consumers of inhumanely farmed meat (eg crate pigs), animal tested cosmetics, farmed fur etc instead revel in it, and glorify it. Seeing animal lover friends laughing about the 'delicious suffering' in their veal, and their Chinese farmed fur garments, expressing a desire to eat whale meat, etc just goes to show that they've put up a wall in their mind and morals, and why? Cause they're feeling defensive, like they need to push back. If they weren't being attacked, this wouldn't happen.
I love the feeling of fur, too, but would never wear it unless it's a by-product, and the animal had a nice life and a quick death. I eat meat and eggs but, again, not when the animal had a miserable, inhumane life and death (free range for the win).
But so many others won't even entertain their options (eg, not actually needing to eat meat twice each freakin' day), and the repercussions of their choices, with an open mind (eg, demand for meat making factory farm conditions so disgusting), for fear of any association with PETA maniacs and OTT aggressive vegans. It's a crying shame
And, from a feminist perspective (funnily enough, another field which is badly suffering the same 'backlash' dilemma), I think it's beyond disgusting that PETA, against meat, treat women in their advertising like the same thing, grr.
Aww, now I'm going to sleep angry. dammit!