This is seriously not funny anymore

[Red Devil]

^^Agreed if you are going out to a strange place or out at night. But you shouldn't have to be with someone if just out running errands or something. You should be able to go to the store by yourself!

this is true..but maybe some areas are not a safe place to be even in the middle of day.. depends where you live i quess...but i would take it seriously if it happened more then once to me around the same place..

 

[knifegill]

He's only stalking you if you don't like him. If you thought he was cute, he'd be 'that cute guy who I met today'. You think double standards based on appearance only apply to women? Bzzzt. Men get shorted, too. And you just did it. For all you know, that guy would've bought you a cadillac. Or a Ring-pop. Yes, I exaggerate, but I think you see my point.

 

[bahamaqt00]

He's only stalking you if you don't like him. If you thought he was cute, he'd be 'that cute guy who I met today'. You think double standards based on appearance only apply to women? Bzzzt. Men get shorted, too. And you just did it. For all you know, that guy would've bought you a cadillac. Or a Ring-pop. Yes, I exaggerate, but I think you see my point.

Hmm I can actually understand that. But it's the fact that she told him to go away and he wouldn't until she threatned to call the cops!

 

[Neervana]

what are you doing to attract stalkers? lol

maybe when you leave the house you need to wear sweatclothes on over whatever your normal outfit is, also not do your hair or makeup before you leave. Then when you arrive at your destination remove sweatclothes and do your hair and makeup.

Also, are you allowed to carry any form of personal defense? (knife, gun, taser, mace, pepper spray etc...) if so, carry at least one. Two might be better, like pepper spray and a good knife or something.

no makeup?! dont do my hair?! might aswell become a beggar then

I dont know what to do anymore, all I did was go out to my local shopping center and some idiot starts following me. there is nothing i can do here to protect myself without risking going to jail!!! Also I don't usually go out by myself after what's been happening but I can't just always tell my friends to come with me whenever I have to go out.. they have their own lives too... sucks big time guys... im losing hope.......

He's only stalking you if you don't like him. If you thought he was cute, he'd be 'that cute guy who I met today'. You think double standards based on appearance only apply to women? Bzzzt. Men get shorted, too. And you just did it. For all you know, that guy would've bought you a cadillac. Or a Ring-pop. Yes, I exaggerate, but I think you see my point.

yeah i definitely did not like him, tbh he was ok looking but when he said hello and i refused to acknowledge him then he followed me for a good half hour thats when i started to get scared i mean even if it was a good looking guy why is he following me so much??? and I don't need that guy to buy me a cadillac, i have a brain and money, I can provide for myself

no but im honestly losing hope here people. i want to go out on my own and do normal things without risking getting attacked or having weirdos follow me. if only pepper spray was legal here i'd be ok i think but it isnt

 

[Neervana]

and btw im doing absolutely nothing to attract stalkers or boys in general, when i go out i always walk in a really fast pace and i dont flirt, i dont pretend to like any attention. i just do whatever i have to do then leave.

 

[scriving]

guns are out of the question guys. she's in the UK. only weapons they have are their words and theyre tea

hahahaha that is great

 

[scriving]

move out the uk then you can pack heat

 

[LBathory]

travel with a knife and some mace, also go out with friends more!

 

[Neervana]

travel with a knife and some mace, also go out with friends more!

its illegal to do that over here, if they catch you travelling with a knife over here its like ten years in prison or something... not sure i wanna do that just yet... lol

 

[fishjude78]

Why must she carry a firearm? she could use anything such as mace or a heavy walking stick.... Why would she want to kill a man when all he did was follow her.. I understand hitting or spraying with mace but not shooting.