i wish i could spend more time with my family, they dont like it when i go home to visit, and when i do they are never there. i go long periods of time without even speaking to my mom. Im the oddball outta my bro n sis, also the oldest, so they more or less forgot about me. ID give anything to have the brains of my brother and the personality of my sister, just so i could "hangout" with them so be grateful.
who else doesnt like socializing with the family?
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things my family has done to me-
sister-
-stolen countless items when i was a kid/teen
-caused me to get in a # of fights
parents-
-over 200,000$ in credit fraud
all of them together-
-helped lead to my divorce
these are just the worser things they have done
this is why iv only seen them once in the last 7 years
and I cant contact my grandmas or aunts/uncles because they would have to hide my contact info from my family. I call them ocassionally and it just turns into a fight. these people are incapable of normal conversation...
so you aint alone devil, most of us jar heads have similar problems.
Semper Suck- NBC
sister-
-stolen countless items when i was a kid/teen
-caused me to get in a # of fights
parents-
-over 200,000$ in credit fraud
all of them together-
-helped lead to my divorce
these are just the worser things they have done
this is why iv only seen them once in the last 7 years
and I cant contact my grandmas or aunts/uncles because they would have to hide my contact info from my family. I call them ocassionally and it just turns into a fight. these people are incapable of normal conversation...
so you aint alone devil, most of us jar heads have similar problems.
Semper Suck- NBC
FisHaRNekEd;1440574; said:
i am sorry to hear that this was your experience
i never used to care much for my family when i was still in brasil, even though all of my uncles and aunts and grandparents lived within 10 km of me. Every sunday we would have lunch together at my grandparents house, and my cousins were both my brothers and best friends. Since I came over to the US, I miss them terribly, and have not seen them in 4 years. I am extremely close to my parents and brother and sister, and only now see what I had taken for granted before.
I can't speak on everyone elses families but I can tell you my experience. During my teenage years I couldn't get far enough away from my family. I didn't want to participate in any family events or spend any time with them if I could avoid it. I moved out right after school and stopped talking to them. After a several years on my own we all grew up and spent enough time apart for things to settle down. 10 years later I am still not %100 with them, but everything is much better. Growing up together, cooped up with each other made us all crazy, things may change and get better once everyone grows up and changes or just gets away from each other. No one can push your buttons like family! I am not sure what your family has done, but if it isn't too horrible don't right them off forever. I recently learned the hard way that sometimes when you really need someone to be around, family is the only thing you can count on, believe it.
Have a step mom,Shes ok,dad is dead,step dad is cool,extremely close to mom.Dad and step moms kids are kewl real close to half/sis.My mom and step dads kid half/bro haven't seen or heard from him in 2 years now think he knows better then to come around.Hes pretty much the only one the family as a whole has a problem with.
other then that family is tight nit.but when i was in my teens i was never home or always in my room.
other then that family is tight nit.but when i was in my teens i was never home or always in my room.
^ I can see how you would think that! But I was never depressed as a teen, and I never wore makeup. I was more or less angry and miserable, but never suciadial. I did start drinking and smoking around 14 or so, which at the time helped me to ignore things that made me angry...
