most aro owners dont go on the internet maybe. when i had my first aro, i had it for over 4 years then my mom drained the tank to maybe 5 inches and it died. if she didn't do that, i would still have that one today n it would be almost 11 years old. ***** happens sometimes n its not like monster aro keepers are proud of it, it jus happens. do you keep aro's? do u keep them for 5-10 years? its almost easier said then done. its a fish, keeping one for years n years isn't something anyone can jus do. it requires more feeding, continues upkeep of the tank, massive upgrades over time. some people aint cut out for it and end up sellin it off b4 it even hits 3 years old.