here is the thing....she does not have a hobby, nor does she spend money on her self....but on really rare occasions anyway. The only time she spend a chunk of change is when she spends it on the kids......you cannot even begin to argue with that. Also that take away from my "well you buy this much of THIS" argument, and somehow makes it look like I do spend a ton on random fish things. i need fuel for my addiction dammit!


I have already got both toddlers working on this plan with me, will take a little time though. Good future investment though!