I'm blown away from your story, Personally when considering such large losses i try and steer away from the financial suffering as although i appreciate it's important, there are far more significant factors.
I can't understand to imagine, i can't even try, but the loss of your collection of fish and your cats dogs and birds must absolutely devestate you, those poor creatures.
I know i must be making the same comment that many people have made to you but i'm truly very glad to hear that you did not lose your daughter or wife in the process, i wish you the best of luck in the future and hope you can put this behind you and once again find happiness.
Best wishes!