sully;563651; said:Radley, I am trying to understand what you said.
Am I right in assuming that I am the "advanced fishkeeper that is a stuck-up snob"? I come probably knowing less about fishkeeping than most of the members here. I readily admit my ignorance. I read posts and threads to help increase my knowledge. And, i have been keeping fish for over 30 years. I don't pretend to know it all. At the same time I have spent years on-line trying to help people that come looking for assistance with their fish. Sometimes I have answers--sometimes I don't. Often times the root of the problem resides, however, with the information that a consumer was given at the time of purchase. Misinformation provided as they were introducing themselves to fish. People come on-line to learn. They come on-line to get help. Those are the people that are ignorant. Ignorance is not an insult. They realize they don't know something. They recognize their ignorance. They are not stupid. A big difference.
Is the public ignorant--i will agree with that. Does that make all of them stupid? does that mean that the information presented to them through advertising should be false and misleading? Does that mean that a company has no obligation to present information that is accurate about the origin, nature, and characteristics of the product sold? Does that mean that it is okay to simply mislead buyers?
Does a consumer have the right to expect accurate information from a retailer? That is all this issue is about. I am personally sorry you feel like customers have treated you like dirt. That does not by default give a company a right to profit from the ignorance by presenting misleading information. If the consumer was presented accurate information would the ignorance level be increased or decreased?
Presenting accurate information will not eliminate selfishness or disregard of fish as a legitimate life form. Some people will continue to consider them as nothing more than ornaments. Many people will treat them in a manner inconsistent with the philosophy of responsible fishkeeping. I can't stop that. No amount of letters can stop that. That is not what this is about.
What can be changed, however, is the opportunity to provide responsible fish husbandry for the people that do care. Many of whom are the same people that are buying fish and killing them as a result of ignorance. An ignorance created by the seller of the fish. that is all i am after correcting. I don't think we can change humanity or the world. I do think we can change a small aspect of how fish are sold. We can take a first step. We can learn to crawl, then walk, and then run.
We can change corporations. The court of public opinion is a cruel court. One that retailers are accutely aware of. Corporations are much more aware of the protestations of the public than they are of the protestations of their employees.
I am not asking anybody to take a lot of time--just some. You don't even need to spend .39 cents on a stamp. E.mail is free. All I am asking is that responsible fishkeepers speak up to help others become the same more quickly--at less expense. With less frustration. I am optimistic--i tilt at windmills. With a little effort we often find that brickwalls have windows and doors. The task of changing behavior does not begin until someone says "no". Letters, and other efforts will help companies to take an action they woiuld not otherwise take more quickly.
Like I said--i tilt at windmills. I hope the people that take a less jaded perspective are willing to support an effort being openly endorsed across the web. I hope they take a moment to send e.mails and letters like many other hobbyists that belong to on-line communities.
What Miles and I were trying to say is we deal with two types, well really three types of people at the fish store. Most experienced fish keepers are not stuck up snobs because the main goal of the hobby is to share it with other people, it is just some people feel that they are wasting their time.
Type I - Totally Clueless
Type II - In and Out customers, no converstion or the "stuck up snobs"
Type III - Lots of experience, loves to talk, will share what they know, sometimes drop by just to say "hey"
When we deal with type II we do not know what size tank they have, how long they have been keeping fish, or even if they care about what they have.
When we deal with Types I and III we spend lots of time talking, and we also learn a lot from each other. I learn what type of tank they have, how long they have had it, what the y have, any experience, and then I tell them what I think. They only reason I look at the tags is to get the price so they can go through the register. People look at the tags and then they tell me they want the fish, I then will give them the information. "Oh it says an oscar can live in a 30 gallon tank?" "No mam, I am sorry but those fish easily get over a foot and you will need atleast a 75 for them, how big is your tank? I can show you some fish that would go great in the tank you have now, lets worry about the Oscars down the road" That is how I deal with type I customers. I usually spend more time with type IIIs because they love to talk about what they have, and I love to talk with them. I love talking to people buying their first tank as well because I too want them to be informed. Please do not think that we do not want people to be informed, I work really hard to make sure everyone I deal with is informed and that the other people I work with are also informed, and I have, in several cases, cut in on a co-worker who was giving out the wrong information.
What Miles and I were trying to say is that the individual employees that love fish do their job as best as they can and try to help, but there is always going to be people that don't care. We try our best to correct problems that have happened, give the best advice, and make sure the fish that we sell are going to be given good homes. I have dealt with people that cared more about a Betta than a man that had 3 gator gars in his basement. They were in a pond for humidity in the house and I refered him here because MFK ROCKS
but he said he had no time for that. Please do not blame people for the mistakes of others. I try my best, and so do a lot of other people and you are not going to fix everything wrong with everything. I applaude your effort, but I also know that a lot of the responsibility rests in the hands of the consumer. All of us on MFK are not snobs, we want to share our expericences with others, and we are not ignorant because we do research. So please, do not place all of the blame on retailers because after the purchase, the consumer forgets what they were told and does not want to ask questions after the fact.