Stick to your guns Rally. I know I made the right choice. (NO KIDS of my own) There is enough people in this world that are doing just fine overpopulating it.
how can you say that? if i was your kid, and i read that, i think i might cry.dantedobe;2227158; said:I don't want kids either, but in saying that, I have 3. I always say I should have stuck with dogs! (I do love them though, but if I had my life over I'd have none)
Connor0729;2233651;2233651 said:how can you say that? if i was your kid, and i read that, i think i might cry.

Miguel;2233530; said:I know it is not the object of this thread.
I fully agree, that to each his own.
I have six children, all from the same woman ( my woman ), AND I LOVE EVERY MINUTE OF IT.
It is a crazy life. Sometimes it feels that I live in Central Station, but who said life was easy?![]()
Red Devil;2233822; said:Miguel... i came from a family of 8 children.. and my dad was alot like you.. he was proud of his kids, and when he passed away we were all there.. and when my mom was sick in the hospital not one of us left her side.. so although my family was poor we were very rich in love of having one another.. and i had two great parents that wanted every one of us..that makes the difference though.. you have to want children to appreciate the task of raising them.. it is not for everybody..
Miguel;2234130; said:which does not mean Lizz, that people who want to do without, have less meaningfull lives...
But I have seen lots of people change direction 180 degrees when children happened to appear and will see loads more...( even here at MFK, I suspect)
rallysman;2227064; said:Is there anyone else with the "balls" to step up and say "I DON'T WANT KIDS!"?
I'm tired of people telling me "You'll change your mind" or "I felt the same way" or "It's different if it's your own"
Bottom line: I don't want kids. I never have wanted kids. I'm old enough to know that I don't want a damn thing to do with them.
If you want to have children, then that's fine. I admire your drive. I want nothing to do with them. Leave me out of it.
This is not a thread for current or future parents to tell me what I'm missing, or how much they love, or how life isn't complete blah blah blah.
I'm just curious if I'm the only one that's tired of being second guessed.