I have a little theory about geeks. I define a geek as someone capable of taking a hobby and turning it into work. That's pretty much the distinction. Of course, it's a lot of work to do water changes and what not, but when you cross the line to where you need a break from your hobby, you've entered geek territory. If you like that fact, then that's great for you. It's a matter of personal choice. For me, it's just fun but I wouldn't feel right if I didn't take excellent care of my fish. So, I overfilter the tanks, feed sparingly, do plenty of wather changes, and the like. However, I do get a lot of joy out of just turning the lights on for a few hours and chilling in front of one of the tanks (especially the 90 gallon). Never intend to breed, sell, or any of that, but I can feel my blood pressure drop just sitting there.