dont think ill be here much longer.......
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All this sorrow and all this feel good reply for this guy isn’t going to make him stronger mentally – it’s just going to make him weaker and procrastinate. Probably still trying to bend elements instead of doing something productive to help himself or the family out.
pURPLEcHILLIrED123;4375652; said:
Who cares what he did with a kiddie pool, thats got nothing to do with this.
It is hard being disabled, being independant. I would imagine a mental disability makes life a thousand times harder than a physical one.
They did actually put him into this situation by not supporting him like a proper family would and helping him get on his feet like proper family would.
They are now forcing him to be in this situation by robbing him blind for sleeping in one room that is shared by the family and buying his own food. Leaving him little money to live with and just about zero opportunity to have a proper go at serious saving.
When I got my first flat my family rallied round and helped me get the essentials even though I had most of it covered but they still offered to put money in. My parents told me if it didn't work out that I was welcome to go home and try again later. That is what a proper family does. That offer is still open now even though i have been married for 4 years and am ex-forces so I know how to be self sufficient.
It honestly seems like some of you aren't taking any of these things into consideration before you post your negative comments instead of sound advice.
Some of you should be ashamed of yourselves for seeing an opportunity to kick the disabled kid while he is down instead of seeing an opportunity to pass on some of your hard learned wisdom.
thanks cichlid2006!
new rant!
im tired of my grandmother putting her stuff in my room ( well gunna start saying living room ) she keeps setting boxes in here then i trip over them..... heck i still have about 6 boxes of stuff that hasnt even been unpacked thats in the corner of the room.. told my grandparents im gunna save up money ( somehow ) for a trip to texas in 6 months and take up ( bolten777 ) offer and work there for awhile tell i get enough money for rent there thn come back and get the rest of my stuff. that would mean id have to cancell my SSI and start fresh. and may or may not have to sell my fishtank... but im deff saving up for a trip to texas..
new rant!
im tired of my grandmother putting her stuff in my room ( well gunna start saying living room ) she keeps setting boxes in here then i trip over them..... heck i still have about 6 boxes of stuff that hasnt even been unpacked thats in the corner of the room.. told my grandparents im gunna save up money ( somehow ) for a trip to texas in 6 months and take up ( bolten777 ) offer and work there for awhile tell i get enough money for rent there thn come back and get the rest of my stuff. that would mean id have to cancell my SSI and start fresh. and may or may not have to sell my fishtank... but im deff saving up for a trip to texas..
LBF,
Oh my goodness.... I’m not even going to saying anything anymore after this… I don’t know what kind of mental disabilities you have, but please keep taking your meds and do not do anything without thinking it through… like telling your grandmother you are moving to Texas.
I truly wish you the best of luck in the future.
DO NOT CANCEL YOUR SSI.
Oh my goodness.... I’m not even going to saying anything anymore after this… I don’t know what kind of mental disabilities you have, but please keep taking your meds and do not do anything without thinking it through… like telling your grandmother you are moving to Texas.
I truly wish you the best of luck in the future.
DO NOT CANCEL YOUR SSI.
well how woould i take it to texas with me? anyways, my grandparents said if i move im not welcome back at all ( they said that 2 other times to ) and i made a agreemnt for a 1 year stay but made a big mistake ( before to i made a 1 year agreement but just cant handle it here ) big mistake moving back so as im saving up im going to think this through..
well i want to get rid of some of my fish ( not the oscars ) and get a few other fish but im not allowed to get rid of any or add any to my tank......... grandmother said if i got any fish then good luck with the fish outside cause its not comming inside......... wow this is my tank not hers!
great advice....please refrain from negative comments... encourage him to get his GED.. get a job.. to get his life secure and solid within his capabilities..cichlid2006;4376196; said:
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