Sorry to hear, its awful when someone breaks your trust for them and in a whole with people in general.
To me its not about whether or not she will cheat again, but that it will always be in the back of your head that she may cheat agian. In my opinion, and I've seen many people try to work it out, your sanity is much more important.
If I was in a relationship that I even thought someone was being unfaithful I would end it. Its not fair to either person when the trust isn't there and you have to respect yourself more than that, and I can't see how she would truly respect you if you did stay, that's just my opinion.
Breaking stuff and going on a rampage may make you feel better at that moment but it really doesn't get back at her, it just gives her a reason to hold something against you. Just leave, no fuss, no carring on, your a man and you found what kind of girl she really is so she not worth the effort, thats how you win. She will realize that she is the one that looses, and will have to always regret what she has lost for her mistakes.
A true clean break obviously isn't easy and will take time, at least this is one of things that time will most likely make easier to take. Holding her crimes against any furture girlfriends, will be unfair to that person and probably end you up single and miserable.
To me its not about whether or not she will cheat again, but that it will always be in the back of your head that she may cheat agian. In my opinion, and I've seen many people try to work it out, your sanity is much more important.
If I was in a relationship that I even thought someone was being unfaithful I would end it. Its not fair to either person when the trust isn't there and you have to respect yourself more than that, and I can't see how she would truly respect you if you did stay, that's just my opinion.
Breaking stuff and going on a rampage may make you feel better at that moment but it really doesn't get back at her, it just gives her a reason to hold something against you. Just leave, no fuss, no carring on, your a man and you found what kind of girl she really is so she not worth the effort, thats how you win. She will realize that she is the one that looses, and will have to always regret what she has lost for her mistakes.
A true clean break obviously isn't easy and will take time, at least this is one of things that time will most likely make easier to take. Holding her crimes against any furture girlfriends, will be unfair to that person and probably end you up single and miserable.
