In my humble opinion, you have done a great job supporting your statements. Thank you. It makes me a bit sadder I had to kill mine off. Oh well. If I get the license, I will try again, this time with a good size school.
I have not found my dorado to be this bloodthirsty creature these links depict. It was not that big though, only 2 feet and 5-6 years old.
When someone speaks of aggression without any qualifiers, I personally would like to gain clarity first what aggression they are referring to. Predatory aggression can be mitigated by proper feeding and by choosing large and robust tank mates or the ones that are aggressive territorially or hierarchically. Territorial and hierarchical aggression is mitigated by a careful choice of tank mates.
In the example above, the Jibran (headbanger) crenicichla's territorial aggression is probably what overcomes dorado's predatory aggression or the known nippiness and otherwise nuisance behavior, it's hard to think about feeding when the feed is attacking you...
Anyhow, this is all fun and dandy but I think you'd agree that the no amount of reading and generalized considerations can take place or overcome a thorough, grounded, and long term firsthand experience. The latter is heavily favored on the MFK, is what I have been trying to tell you too.