It's not parasites - this is a known CB poly thing. Parasites usually make skinny polys not fat ones. 
I wouldn't want to separate either. Hopefully cutting down the feedings will allow you to keep her in the tank long term, and prevent her from becoming like
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' obese Teug (or ornate? I'm blanking) who did have to be moved becasue she would not stop. That's unusual though.

I wouldn't want to separate either. Hopefully cutting down the feedings will allow you to keep her in the tank long term, and prevent her from becoming like
