Long story short, stemmed from my dad having tanks when I was two or three years old. Then I set up my first when I was 14. At 18 I got a 55g, thought it was HUGE...at 23 upgraded that to a 125g...my god, the possibilities and the monsters...we still have on...an Oscar who's 11 1/2 years old!!!! She's from when me and my now hubby first started dating. But, one day, I was at the LFS and saw a Flowerhorn cichlid and an Achara catfish who was then around 6inches. Lady warned me about both. FH was mine, achara was husband's as he is always trying to catch one when we are out fishing, but never has. Hubby really never took to the catfish, but I did. How ironic. The cat's now 2 1/2 feet.
Years later....FH gets own tank, brand new one but later dies from hole in the head no matter the extensive treatment and I was devastated. The tank sits in storage. I've a different FH now with it in a different tank.....
How I got into MONSTER tanks??? found on CL when we needed to upgrade before achara outgrew the 125g, thank god. He's now in the 265g, awaiting our negotiation on the indoor tank/pond for him and the redtail forever home, which we are HYPED about!!!! So, I got into big tanks from my dad starting the hobby, but from me falling in love with one catfish. I guess I can say we're not negotiating on the indoor pond-blueprints already done. It's where it's going to go is the question.