I don't even know what to title this. (rant/vent)

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Let's say that you are living with someone else. That person then moves your car to an old car garage. Because it's so old it breaks and destroys your car. He had no right to touch your car that you paid for and as a result it ended up being destroyed. Do you not have a right to be mad?
I am hateful and sneaky? Hateful, yes. Sneaky, no.
I hate it when people do things to other people's stuff and think they can get away with it.
Ungrateful? I laugh at that. I make my mother her lunch everyday. Whenever she needs something I get her it. If she wants something but doesn't ask for it I still get it for her. Everytime she needs to cry I'm there for her. I have helped her deal with my sister every time something went wrong with her. Still think I'm ungrateful? Think again. You have no idea what other people do, you only know a little bit from what they say. You can never truly know everything that's going on in someone else's life so you can't make assumptions about them.
As for the tree, it was 2 feet thick and a rusty axe. Even when I'm close to losing all control and all I can see red I can hear my own voice in the back of my head saying what I can do to get my anger out. I passed by a sharp axe to get to the rusty one because subconsciously I knew that I wouldn't cause any damage. I did attempt to cut down the tree in the heat of the moment but not really. That axe barely made any marks in the tree and you couldn't cut down that tree with it even if you kept swinging it for 24 hours straight.
 
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"This is god punishing you for your sins". Just imagine this. If god's real then he probably took a nap and that's why so much sh*t is going on in the world. He's asleep and doesn't know it yet lol.
Actually, God has already said things will go bad in the end.
 
but I say screw her. She's delusional and you're the one thinking clearly. Do it at night after she goes to bed.
Hello; Sounds sneaky to me.

say that you are living with someone else.

Because it's so old it breaks and destroys your car
Hello; basically if you live under someone else's roof and they pay the bills then yes they can park a car wherever they want. An insurance company will sometimes call it an act of God in these cases. Are you saying the parent KNEW the garage was going to fall?
Anyway I would be upset but I do not see how the parent can get the blame for a failure of a building. It is bad luck for sure and most of us get a plenty share. I doubt that the building fell just to get at you.
On another topic, if you had a car then you must be much older than I had been thinking. Most places you have to be 16 or older to drive so you may be near old enough to go out on your own.

Still think I'm ungrateful? Think again


you only know a little bit from what they say

can never truly know everything that's going on in someone else's life so you can't make assumptions about them.
hello; Yes I still think you "APPEAR" to be ungrateful. And yes there are only the things you write on this forum on which to base this assumption.

I passed by a sharp axe to get to the rusty one
Hello; It is not that you failed to actually cut down a tree, but that you made the attempt which is the telling thing in my opinion. If someone tries to hurt me or do damage to my property they do not get a pass because of incompetence.

Hello; To the OP. I get that you are upset with your mom but it might not be the best path to take advice from this fishead guy. Sorry to but in and use up so much of your thread but his comments are, in my opinion, in many ways just wrong. Good luck
 
If you wish to continue this discussion then let's take it to our pm's and not disrupt this person's thread. Sorry op for disrupting your thread.
 
Hello; To the OP. I get that you are upset with your mom but it might not be the best path to take advice from this fishead guy. Sorry to but in and use up so much of your thread but his comments are, in my opinion, in many ways just wrong. Good luck
If you wish to continue this discussion then let's take it to our pm's and not disrupt this person's thread. Sorry op for disrupting your thread.

I'll take decisions the way I want them, sometimes voicing my opinion on certain things really gets my mom riled up. Doesn't matter if I catch her in a good mood or not, she's never open to suggestions about my tanks.

Hope you two sort this out, hate seeing members having arguments like this one.
 
Hello; This is poor advice to give for dealing with a parent. If you live long enough you will find that your parents are among the few people you can sort of depend on. It seems clear from this and the post about tryin to cut a tree down on your own house that you do not get along with family. Not sure how old you are but the sort of things you suggest would not fly if you lived in my home.
To the OP, I suggest you do not pay much attention to such advice. In a few years you can move out and then ep tanks any way you wish.


IMO the issue is that she moved his fish without asking if it was okay. It's not like she hid his computer for no reason. She directly caused severe stress to a fish causing the fish to die. If she risks the health of animals that are helpless in this way without even asking her son if it is okay to move them, who knows what she'll do? IMO OP should explain to her why she shouldn't do stuff like this and ask her to promise him not to move his fish or do anything with his aquariums and fish related things without permission from him.
 
My point exactly bot.
 
IMO the issue is that she moved his fish without asking if it was okay. It's not like she hid his computer for no reason. She directly caused severe stress to a fish causing the fish to die. If she risks the health of animals that are helpless in this way without even asking her son if it is okay to move them, who knows what she'll do? IMO OP should explain to her why she shouldn't do stuff like this and ask her to promise him not to move his fish or do anything with his aquariums and fish related things without permission from him.
Sorry to disagree but some people don't place much value in a fish(compared to a dog or cat).
 
Sorry to disagree but some people don't place much value in a fish(compared to a dog or cat).
Then maybe it's good to explain how much value the fish has to yourself and that this sort of event is very upsetting.
 
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