I would agree venting is the most accurate, especially when it comes to cichlids like Amphilophines.
I can't tell the difference when it comes to them, by any outward appearance clues.
And..... in many cases, if there isn't a male cichlid in the tank, a female cichlid will take on alpha characteristics (normally associated with males.
Take this Nandopsis haitiensus.
Here is a female, with a male housed in the tank.

but when I removed the male, her coloration and even profile changed to the look below.

Here, a male haitiensus

I can't tell the difference when it comes to them, by any outward appearance clues.
And..... in many cases, if there isn't a male cichlid in the tank, a female cichlid will take on alpha characteristics (normally associated with males.
Take this Nandopsis haitiensus.
Here is a female, with a male housed in the tank.

but when I removed the male, her coloration and even profile changed to the look below.

Here, a male haitiensus
