Maybe I'm overthinking this...

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Yeah like I know NOBODY with fish tanks, I feel so alone.
So I joined this (: Now I feel right at home, even though SOME people are
rude and like to think you should do your tank like theirs... um NO
Because not everyone has the same taste, if I wanted a rude opinion I'd ask for it (:

but all in all, he finally took me today, then got mad at me cause I went to
two different pet stores and took like an hour in each one. The last one I got
caught up in this Red Devil, a tank of Green Terrors, some "ALL convicts" which
were Pink and Zebra Convicts, retards, AND a HUGEEEE Blood Parrot (:
I wanted to talk them all home, mainly the Pink Convict to mate with a male/female
convict when I get rid of them. I def plan on breeding them though (:

then he told me I was wasting his gas and he isn't my taxi, then started mumbling
about how I was ignoring him and didn't love him.. mm okay because I was trying to
smoke a cig and keep the wind out of my face so I didn't singe it! Thats totally
ignoring him. lol



I need new friends and possibly a new boyfriend!
 
misstish;4404896; said:
Yeah like I know NOBODY with fish tanks, I feel so alone.
So I joined this (: Now I feel right at home, even though SOME people are
rude and like to think you should do your tank like theirs... um NO
Because not everyone has the same taste, if I wanted a rude opinion I'd ask for it (:

but all in all, he finally took me today, then got mad at me cause I went to
two different pet stores and took like an hour in each one. The last one I got
caught up in this Red Devil, a tank of Green Terrors, some "ALL convicts" which
were Pink and Zebra Convicts, retards, AND a HUGEEEE Blood Parrot (:
I wanted to talk them all home, mainly the Pink Convict to mate with a male/female
convict when I get rid of them. I def plan on breeding them though (:

then he told me I was wasting his gas and he isn't my taxi, then started mumbling
about how I was ignoring him and didn't love him.. mm okay because I was trying to
smoke a cig and keep the wind out of my face so I didn't singe it! Thats totally
ignoring him. lol



I need new friends and possibly a new boyfriend!
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edit...... DEFINITELY

i dont mean to seem rude but he sounds like a total jerk
 
Just by reading what you said so far it doesn't seem like your happy with your fiancée??? now i don't know how long you been with him, and without trying to sound rude (although it may come off that way) i'm not sure how long you two will last as a married couple...

I mean obviously i don't know you or your boyfriend, nor what you two are like behind closed doors, but if your constantly fighting now whats it going to be like 5 - 10 years from now...

So just based on observation i'd say its maybe time to move on while you still can before it's too late and gets all the more complicated...

just my 0.2 cents...
 
dump the jerk, he sounds like my brother
and I have a feeling that your best guyfriend really likes you, it not loves, or hes ***

I remember being the bestfriend to a girl that I freaking loved and my sorry ass just let her move to another province without telling her how I feel, don't screw up your life, if your not happy don't do it, go with what makes you and your partner happy
GL
 
There are tons of nice guys out there, why bother squabbling and trying to make it work with one that is a trifling d-bag?
 
Thanks guys!! This really made me think clearer.

I plan on having a talk with him, if he wants to be a d-bag about it
then he is getting the boot. The boy cries more then I do!
I like sensitive guys, but its getting to much for me.

my male bestfriend, Aaron..is his name, already said he would marry me in
a heart beat and wanted to buy me a rose but he didn't my fiancee, Eric,
to get mad at me for having it in my room.

A lot of people have told me in the last year or so they are surprised we
lasted this long. I want to say its more out of habit and a comfort zone.
I've already lost my bestfriend of 9 years, because I don't like her boyfriend.
She picked him over me, I'm not too worried about it.
So why not throw the rest of the junk out??

but thanks again everyone, you've really helped alot.
If I was to tell you guys EVERYTHING, you would be reading my post for
about a good 2-3 hours and I probably wouldn't be able to feel my
fingers anymore. lol
 
Metalgearliquid2;4403267; said:
dump him.... keep the ring..... sell it..... buy fish supplies.... enjoy life
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I FORGOT TO TELL THE STORY BEHIND THE RING!!!! :eek:


Okay so I told him I didn't really care if the ring was cheap, as in get it from a pawn shop or something... Heck, I find GORGEOUS rings in there all the time when my mother goes and pays for her pawns.
He gets the ring, shows my mom, all good right?
WRONG!
I found the receipt and the "cardboard" it came on. He told me to help clean his room, so I did. Which in turn, I found the ring "box" but didn't open it, I'm not a snooper. Its rude.
Soooo the "box" is the ring box that my mom's mother day ring came in that I got her. It was 200 dollars, personalized.
The "ring", 12.95$ NO, I'm NOT missing a digit either! :cry:
I felt cheap, I still do. He said he wouldn't spend less then 100 on one for me. I feel about as good as a nice steak from the beef shops around here. I know it shouldn't matter the cost, but COME ON!!
I know as well as anybody, if someone gave you this as an engagement ring, you would feel like dirt, but you wouldn't let the person know.
Well when we broke up the first time, I let him have it.

He is a momma's boy, he keeps promising to "move out" with me, whatever, I'll find a place with Aaron. Who I would more then gladly live with seeing as we get along so well.

he as a bestfriend, named Jessica, who I can't STAND!
and this is why, she talks and runs her mouth about me like I'm not going to find out. Says I will never change and I will continue to treat him like crap. I treat him like crap?? Why because I stand up for myself and call him out when I feel he is doing wrong?
I brought this up to him and he took HER side!!! I gave it a few weeks, she did this again, I had it.
I told him either he sticks up for me, or she will get knocked out and I will break him emotionally. I'm not a mean person, but I know how to stand up for myself. Needless to say, he cried. lol I'm like omg, momma's boy!!
 
It really sounds like it's time to break that bad habit and get out of your 'not so comfort zone'.
 
If he's starting out on that foot before you're even married...how will he be after? seriously rethink...small things says alot
 
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