All these threads really do is show how pointless the Lounge really is. We would have more time to focus on members if we didn't have to read dumb threads like this every single day. I love keeping fish and especially love talking fish with other people. That is why I come here. The last thing I want to do is get into an argument over he-said she-said stuff. People constantly complain about how tight we are on things, but go absolutely crazy if someone lets them slide on a couple things. Then undoubtedly, they get mad when you have to reel them back in. Inturn, people constantly complain because we are too forgiving. It is a lose-lose situation at times.
With as much as I enjoy the Lounge, I'd vote to see it go. Too much time wasted between everyone when we could be having conversations about keeping fish. You try to provide an area where people can have a little fun and of course, someone has to push that envelope to see how much they can get away with. This is a fish site. If you want adult conversations, post your opinions, rants and rave on Facebook. If I really feel the need to stare at half-naked women, I'll go to one of the many 18+ sites dedicated to just that.
I'd say the fish forums cause just as much, if not more, problems. I see more heated discussions, flaming, trolling and drama in the fish forums than I do in the Lounge. I'm not a mod so I don't see it all, but that's just been my experience.